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34 Berkeley, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 18–99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:52pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Mostly vegan
Graduated from university
Less than $20,000
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes cats

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My self-summary
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Relationships take many forms, people change and relationships change, I take relationships and communication seriously, not necessarily interested in relationships that last forever, not interested in monogamy or a serious relationship in the "brunch, it's my sister's x and I want you to be there, my parents invited us for dinner again" sense, working through various issues (poor decision making/social skills, mild anxiety/depressiony stuff), I have no money (which among other things means I don't go to concerts, plays, events, moderate-fine dining, or travel). Ambiguity in what people want out of relationships need not necessarily be avoided, I like ambiguity. In relationships as in other things, I tend to be interested in ugly, messy, interesting, good, bad things that happen, not super concerned with intended outcomes or getting it right. Vers.

I'm pretty big on health, massage, biology, poly/polyamory/non-monogamy/open relationships, having time to myself, primarily having someone to come home to rather than go out with. I spend a lot of time on work/study, which doesn't leave a lot of time for the traditional relationship stuff or adventures so I'm looking for people who don't want that from me. I'd like to establish a healthy work/life balance so I'm sort of open to things, but I'll always be pretty work focused. I try to get a lot of sleep so I try to avoid staying out/up late. I do a little reading and drawing off and on, I have little time for it unfortunately. I love SF, but due to lack of time/money I rarely get out there so I'm limiting my in-person interactions to East-Bayers.

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What I’m doing with my life
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I've had issues managing my life for a while. I'm taking a class. Eventually I'd like to work in molecular biology research.
I’m really good at
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Making a huge messy mess of things. Being ok. Making pickles. Liking, loving my body. Being needy, wanty.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Maybe nervous, scatterbrained, spacey? If on a date, it's generally "oh my god, it's this guy" or "oh my god, it's this guy."
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On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Listening to Happy by Pharrell Williams on repeat, eating peanut butter out of a jar, clapping, masturbating.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I want us to go trail running, see you shining, healthy, sweaty, gross.

I want us to walk past the old folks home, sneak glances through the window.

I want to ride bikes to the top of the Piedmont cemetery and have a picnic lunch with sandwiches, Odwallas, rice crackers, chit-chat about your day and life, wonder who all the people are, and when nobody's around kiss.
You should message me if
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-you want to talk on skype.
-you want to meet for 1/2-1 hour for tea, sorbet, boba, tacos, bagels, donuts, etc. and walking and talking.
-you want to talk about biology, biochemistry
-you want to take take-out to a bay overlook and watch the sunset.
-you want me to make you a dinner of quinoa, sauteed/steamed veggies, tofu, lentils, and salad.
-you want to cook together.
-you want to have a cemetery picnic lunch.
-you want to taste my pickle. Bada bing. Or sauerkraut.
-you run near my pace and want to run together.
-you want to cuddle and watch a tv show, movie, or history/art/whatev documentary.
-you want to have your portrait or figure drawn (poorly).
-I've never been out dancing, except for popscene and a reggae festival a long time ago. I sort of maybe want to learn. Maybe it'd be good exercise, funner than the crap I do now? Maybe you can suggest lessons, venues, events where everyone wouldn't laugh at me.
-you want to get to know an unemployed "fuck up" with an uncertain future who lives with his parents.
-you can deal with awkward family interactions.
-you are prepared for public embarrassment due to how I act, dress, etc.
-any of these is your spirit animal: X;<) : F . . . . . .
-you want to meditate together.
-you want to exchange massages.
-you want to pretend we're at a spa and give each other spa treatments.
-you don't want to sleep alone.
-you want to tie me up.
-you want to peg me.
-you want to teach me orgasmic meditation or how to tie knots.
-you want a boy toy, you want to be my boy toy. Or girl/woman/man toy, whatev.
-you're "straight" and want your dick sucked, hmu.
-you want to have a message exchange in which you keep turning the conversation increasingly sexual although I tell you I'm not comfortable with it, then become hostile when I say I'm not interested in cyber, NSA sex, hooking up in 24 hours, or sending naked pics.