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FadedGryPhoto

23 / F / Straight / Single

Harrisonburg, Virginia

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:09pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Wants kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Latin (Okay)

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My self-summary
I love tattoos that have stories behind them. My tattoos do, ask me about them.

I could seriously write a book about awkward dates. I can't make this stuff up.

That being said, I love awkward situations.

I'm a hopeless romantic. Seriously. It's the little things that matter the most.

Making people laugh is important to me, especially if someone really needs a good laugh.

If you can keep me laughing, you'd have my heart.

I have a foot phobia, feet are disgusting. I have a shoe addiction though, I've come to the conclusion that's because shoes cover feet. It's logical if you think about it.

I'd do anything for someone I care about.

I'm left handed.

I'm an open book, you just have to ask the right questions.

I've been to hell and back in my short life, but I won't change it. Everything has made me the person I am today, good or bad.

My favorite color is green.

I collect DVDs and can sit through a terrible movie.

My favorite movie is Fight Club.

I generally stop talking to people that can't create a full sentence, it's extremely annoying.

I love to drive. Random road trips are amazing.

I nicknamed my car Granny Wag, which is what most people refer to it as. My car is by baby.

I could star gaze for hours on end. Bonus points if you're willing to lay outside with me at night.

I'm OCD, I'm not embarrassed. Apparently it's pretty entertaining to watch.

I can't make a decision to save my life. I realize it's extremely annoying, but I can't change that.

I notice almost everything.

I have weird habits, everyone does if you really think about it.

I hate talking on the phone, but I text all day long.

I have a hard time sitting still, I'm usually playing with something in my hands at the very least.

I collect business books which I don't generally have time to read.

I'm the first in my family to graduate college. I don't generally give myself enough credit for the drive that I had to get there.

I'm also the "baby" of the family, but I've always been the most responsible.

I have a weird habit of snapping my fingers when I'm walking quickly because I'm on a mission. Most noticibly when I'm at work.
What I’m doing with my life
I currently have a full time job, one that I had while I was working my way through college. I take care of my family, but I'm really looking for that next phase in life; which includes a new job, home and preferably a new location. But we will see what happens there.

Until then, I plan on continuing to work hard, learn and have fun with everything I do.

Honestly at this point, I'm not really sure what I'm looking for. I definitely want a long term, committed relationship, but I'm not sure that I'm going to find it where I am now. I'm also comfortable being a single, individual person, so I don't need that relationship to define who I am. I think too many people do. I'd rather wait until something special comes along and develop from there rather than jumping into any sort of relationship that comes along. I'm open minded though, maybe you'll surprise me.
I’m really good at
-Photography
-Listening
-Giving advice
-Making people laugh
-Being indecisive
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm a really quiet person, not to be confused with shy. I just don't typically have a lot to say, I'm much more intrigued by listening to others.

Physically, people usually notice my eyes and smile first.

Other than that, people usually notice that I'm sassy, or my sense of humor and sarcasm once I actually open up.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Giver, Fahrenheit 451, Smart Women Finish Rich, Global Capitalism :It's Fall and Rise of the Twentieth Century, The World is Flat, How Soccer Explains the World, Nudge, Predictably Irrational, Fight Club, etc.

Movies: Fight Club, Memento, The Great Raid, Seven, Prestige, The Illusionist, Deja Vu, Batman: The Dark Knight, The Soloist, Law Abiding Citizen, Inception, The Proposal, Iron Man, Iron Man 2, Punisher, etc.

TV: Hung, Suits, Life, How I Met Your Mother, House, Nip/Tuck, Band of Brothers (mini series), Family Guy, Cleveland Show, Community, Parks and Rec, 30 Rock, Squidbillies, Shit my Dad Says, Big Bang Theory

Music: I listen to just about anything, not so much screamo though. It all depends on my mood.

Food: I'll eat just about anything, other than fish.
The six things I could never do without
Love/Passion
Laughter
Cuddling
Art/Music/Photography
Movies
Cell phone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My past; how everything I've experienced so far in life has made me the person I am today.

My present; what I'm currently doing to achieve the goals I have.

My future; what I'm going to do with my life and career-wise, my future family and relationship, as well as everything else that life has in store for me.
On a typical Friday night I am
It tends to vary. Some nights I'm staying home watching a movie and catching up on some much needed rest, out with friends having a good time or running some errand and catching up on house work.

Some of the best nights have been questioning why I'm on the dance floor and who exactly is behind me. Good times.

I'm always open to suggestions.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I met a guy at a coffee shop that stuck his tongue down my ear... always a good story to break the ice.

Ask me. I'm an open book, you might be surprised by the answers.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 21–35
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends
You should message me if
I'm at a strange point in my life, and job really, where I don't think it would be conducive for me to find the long-term relationship that I desire. My job will have me traveling all over the US for up to a year, so finding and building on a connection may be very challenging. With that being said, I'm also not interested in just hooking up with random people.

I'm more interested in finding friends and people to hang out with for whatever time frame I'm in a particular area. If that's not what you're interested in or just don't want to only talk to someone, I completely understand and can't fault you at all. But if you're willing, give me a shot.

You're interested in really getting to know someone and willing to put in the time and effort to gain a real relationship; friendship or more. Of course, it would be fair for you to expect the same of me in return.