Hey, I'm John and I previously had a lot written here but I'm
cutting down. It seems no one is on here to actually meet other
people for dates or anything close. If you aren't interested in
that or me, then be well. I consider myself confident, opinionated,
and intelligent as well as an INTP (for anyone who appreciates
Jungian personality types).
What I’m doing with my life
Started attending Adelphi University Fall 2012 after bouncing
around a couple schools. I pledged Kappa Sigma and currently live
with some of my brothers in Mineola. These days I clean central
airconditioning systems/air ducts/HVAC parttime for Ductz. Most of
the time, I'm just trying to relax and enjoy life while it's
I’m really good at
Trying... anything. I am adventurous and willing to try anything
I am an artist and designer when I want to be or when I get
I'm top notch at playing video games and doing something else at
the same time, marathoning tv series or movies. Procrastination
disguised as multi-tasking.
I'm pretty convincing with my words when I can string them
properly... Most times I tend to blank on the simplest of words so
don't judge me for sitting in front of you with a stupid look on my
face (that's just my "on tip of tongue" face).
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, probably. I guess I don't pay attention to peoples' first
impressions, but I am confident they are positive.
I'm usually quiet, especially in large groups, but after getting
comfortable I open up. Pretty funny too (if you like sarcasm), and
I rarely get caught for not knowing a person's name.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This could be an endless list... I loved the Hitchhiker's Guide to
the Galaxy series bc I'm a sucker for dry, smart (and nine times
out of ten, British) humor. Huge Stephen King fan and am almost
done with his Dark Tower series. I'm a painfully slow reader and
tend to read for a week and pick up a week later.
I like a lot of tv shows/series and movies, kinda a multi-media
junky. House of Cards, True Detective, Arrow, The Newsroom,
Breaking Bad, The Walking Dead, Suits, American Horror Story,
Weeds, True Blood, Boardwalk Empire, etc.
I've watched many a movie. Not a healthy habit haha but my favorite
will always be Tim Burton's masterpiece, A Nightmare Before
Christmas! I'm a cinephile, which is relatively easy when most
people my age haven't even seen the original Star Wars trilogy....
The six things I could never do without
- A new series (tv/movie/book/comic/game) to obsess over
- My sketchbook/notebook/journal
- Pillows, a bed or even a nice couch, a blanket too
- Time to myself
- Friends and, heck, I'll throw in family too
- The internet if I'm being honest
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Really depressing shit. Well I don't find it depressing but when I
try to explain it to others they think it's depressing shit. It's
been very well explained by Rusty in the show True Detective.
I'm a philosophy major and a lot of my thinking is intense and
dense. Not particularly dating site material. Ask if interested in
falling asleep with your computer opened to a dating site.
On a typical Friday night I am
I enjoy a good party but more often I'll be hanging out with
friends, having a laugh. Clubs and bars seem more trouble than
they're worth and I'm a lightweight.
You should message me if
You aren't creepy/judgmental/illiterate/boring and prove it through
You are actually on here looking to meet and aren't wasting
You are TALL! Not a deal breaker, but I am not at all intimidated
by those taller than myself.
You live close by and aren't constantly busy.
You can be honest and tell me that this profile is too wordy and
pretentious for my own good.
You like to have a good time!