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43 / M / Straight / Single

New York, New York

His Details

Last Online
Online now!
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Executive / Management
Income
$500,000–$1,000,000
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am told that I am witty, charming and a gentleman. I think of myself as curious, funny and hunting for the next adventure. The truth is probably somewhere in between...

I like to spend my time going out and about...theater, movies, museums, great restaurants, great cheap restaurants, spicy food, cycling, rock climbing, relearning the guitar...

Grew up in NYC. Jaded by age 13.

Travel restores my sense of wonder and the beauty of nature overwhelms me.
What I’m doing with my life
I am sort of a doctor for companies. Some days its drudgery and other days its a calling.
I’m really good at
Convincing people to do things
Spontaneity
Buying more books than I can read
Being a movie and literature snob
Faking knowledge about art history
Enjoying gawker
Giving massages
Snappy retorts
Solving a crisis
Planning a weekend
Whipping up crepes
Throwing dinner parties
Teasing children
Wrapping presents
Making souffles
Driving fast
Finding my way
Training dogs
Disproving Republican arguments
Discretion
Getting speeding tickets
Inspiring confidence
Empathy
Serving coffee in bed
Cynicism
Recalling irrelevant facts
Playing the piano badly
Finding great places to get desserts
Building bridges and solving problems
Starting revolutions
The first things people usually notice about me
Style and grace until I spill a drink
(Evidently a few people have mentioned that I have a wedding ring on in one of my pictures. It is true that I was once married. What can I say...)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
So many...Amis (both), nabokov, russo, Tolstoy, submarine movies, Pink Martini, The Xx, the new pornographers, Morcheeba, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, SJ & The Daps, John Lee Hooker, miles davis, jim thomson, this american life, the Wire, fess, Elmore Leonard...its a grab bag. I am easily amused, but have high standards.
The six things I could never do without
My daughter, killer music, coffee, novels, my ipad, great food...so many other things as well. This is a weirdly artificial question
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My next travel destination. Next stops are Buenos Aires, Prague (check), Anguilla, African Safari, Helsinki (check), Beijing (check), Bali (again), and Vietnam (again) costa rica, Argentina, Not sure which order but am knocking them off...
On a typical Friday night I am
Enjoying dinner with friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If I was a superhero my second superpower would be the ability to find a cab in the rain.

3 rd superpower invisibility so I could take short afternoon naps at work

4th superpower to write a screenplay in my limited spare time
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are happy, smart and funny
You love New York, but can still laugh at the oddities of this city.
You have style and flair
You like to travel.