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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jul 4
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Not at all
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am told that I am witty, charming and a gentleman. I think of myself as curious, funny and hunting for the next adventure. The truth is probably somewhere in between...

I like to spend my time going out and, movies, museums, great restaurants, great cheap restaurants, spicy food, cycling, rock climbing, relearning the guitar...

Grew up in NYC. Jaded by age 13. Travel restores my sense of wonder...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am sort of a doctor for companies. Some days its drudgery and other days its a calling.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Convincing people to do things
Buying more books than I can read
Being a movie and literature snob
Faking knowledge about art history
Enjoying gawker
Giving massages
Snappy retorts
Solving a crisis
Planning a weekend
Whipping up crepes
Throwing dinner parties
Teasing children
Wrapping presents
Making souffles
Driving fast
Finding my way
Training dogs
Disproving Republican arguments
Getting speeding tickets
Inspiring confidence
Serving coffee in bed
Recalling irrelevant facts
Playing the piano badly
Finding great places to get desserts
Building bridges and solving problems
Starting revolutions
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Style and grace until I spill a drink or trip and fall
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
So many...Amis (both), nabokov, russo, Tolstoy, submarine movies, Pink Martini, The Xx, the new pornographers, Morcheeba, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, SJ & The Daps, John Lee Hooker, miles davis, jim thomson, this american life, the Wire, fess, Elmore Leonard...its a grab bag. I am easily amused, but have high standards.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My daughter, killer music, coffee, novels, my ipad, great many other things as well. This is a weirdly artificial question
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My next travel destination. Next stops are Buenos Aires, Prague (check), Anguilla, African Safari, Helsinki (check), Beijing (check), Bali (again), and Vietnam (again) costa rica, Argentina, Not sure which order but am knocking them off...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying dinner with friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I was a superhero my second superpower would be the ability to find a cab in the rain.

3 rd superpower invisibility so I could take short afternoon naps at work

4th superpower to write a screenplay in my limited spare time
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are happy, smart and funny
You love New York, but can still laugh at the oddities of this city.
You have style and flair
You like to travel.