My interests are: athleticism, ceramics, chess, cuddling, football, friends, fun, gothic shtuff, hockey, honesty, intelligence, kindness, love, massages, math, maturity, movies, no drugs, no smoking, open mindedness, poetry, pool, purple, roses, Russians/Ukrainians, Rutgers University, sexy-ness, sports, sweetness, theatre, trance, volleyball, etc.
Are You HOT or NOT?
It says that I'm single and looking for short term dating ... but that's just so I can be added into the Stranger Arranger feature of this site. I tend to get along better with people I have a lot in common with. I've found myself an awesome guy and hopefully this is the long term relationship I've wanted. I put all this info on myself on this site just to see if there was someone I can hold who will respect me... I'm not an accessory... and I think this guy's it. Hopefully, for heaven sakes, he won't leave me hanging... It used to be that another guy that seemed interested in me and said he'd call but didn't after more than a week and didn't answer my calls... they deserve to be killed. (And don't think I won't do it either. I'm sure that scared about half of those reading this profile .. hehe)
And please... I can't even get into bars yet.. that must be a put off for those of you who are 27 or over... (its kinda weird that most of the people that message or mail me are over 40.. I'm so confused.) I don't wanna be hanging around a bunch of much older guys. I'm looking for guys who are around my age but are mature (I'm 19).
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE DO NOT IM ME SAYING THAT I AM SEXY OR BEAUTIFUL OR ANYTHING OF THE SORT. THAT IS NOT A PROPER WAY TO START A CONVERSATION. What am I supposed to answer?? Thanks?
See... I don't have high self-esteem and actually telling me I look good makes me think that the person that says comments like that is shallow and should GET A LIFE AND A BRAIN! (I hear they sell them on e-bay maybe you should check it out)(P.S.-To those that pointed out to me a flaw, I'd like to add to the previous blurb: Yes, after you meet me and hang out with me for a little bit and still find your initial thoughts to be true or improved, a compliment would be a nice thing to hear. *smiles* I actually am able to appreciate/accept comments/compliments from those people b/c the good can come with the bad (aka constructive criticism) b/c noone you don't know will tell you to your face things you do wrong (hopefully subconsciously) and still want to be your friend. That's honesty right there. And b/c the good can come with the bad it is greatly appreciated (and I'm trying to get better at accepting that even though I'm not as close to perfect as I wanna be), I still do have good qualities that others can enjoy and notice. So a big thank you to those that read this and still want to meet me and those that keep returning to find updated info and to those that are, in a sense, allowed to give me constructive criticism but decide instead to pay me compliments. I applaud you all.
I am athletic, ukrainian, and complicated