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26 Newport, NH Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of two-year college
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, and might want more
Has dogs

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi my name's Ben.

I like to think I am a fairly simple guy. I am not your typical "20 something", I don't really drink and I don't enjoy clubs. I enjoy simpler things. A night out with friends for dinner and a movie, or even staying in and cooking and playing games (board games, table top, cards etc).

In my free time I enjoy some of the geekier things in life. I enjoy role playing games and larping. As well as reading and I am currently writing my first novel.

I also enjoy being in the outdoors, Hiking, Camping, Fishing etc.

I am also a very proud father of a beautiful little two year old girl.

Well I am going to keep this short, as describing all of ones self in a few paragraphs is rather impossible and ruins the fun of meeting new people. What would you have to talk about? Feel free to message me any time. :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I just moved in to my new home. A beautiful house on an amazing 3 acres of land out in the woods. I have so many projects that I am planning for this place.

I am also looking in to going back to school. Either a degree in Emergency and Disaster Management, Writing and Literature, Marine Biology, or Paleontology. (Yeah I know it's a weird mix)

I have also recently started designing and creating post apocalyptic clothing. Pieces that are both functional and cool in my opinion. This is a whole new endeavor for me as I have never sewn in my life. I am staying true to a post apocalyptic setting with it as well and I am only using items that I have on hand and a sewing awl. (Mostly out of a lack of a sewing machine lol)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing (or so I'd like to think)
Being a Dad
Card Games
Wandering for hours in the woods
and many many more things
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Honestly I am not sure, Maybe my eyes? Message me and let me know your opinion so I can get a real answer to this. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Enders Game (the whole series is amazing), The Dresden Files (see first entry), The Lord of the Rings trilogy, The Hobbit, The Dragonlance Chronicles, The collective works of HP Lovecraft and many many more.

The Fifth Element, The Lord of the Rings Trilogy, The Hobbit (the original cartoon and the present release), Willy Wonka and the Choclate Factory (Yes the original not the remake, although it was good), Oceans 11, Now You See Me and many many more.

Currently, Supernatural, The Simpsons, Futurama, Breaking Bad, Sleepy Hollow, Doctor Who and many more.
In the Past but not recently, Bill Nye The Science Guy, Heroes, Smallville and many many others.

Lindsey Stirling, Katra, Disturbed, Santana, The Black Keys, Nightwish and many more. The only things I don't really listen to are rap, hip hop, pop and country (they have just never really caught my interest)

Mainly Italian or Irish, however I also enjoy Japanese, Greek, American and French.

Lately I have been rather disillusioned with videogames. However I am finding myself much more interested in online gaming of late. Games where I can interact with my friends have definitely caught my interest. However I will always have a weakness for a well designed long rpg such as the Fallout series, or The Legend Of Zelda.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Daughter
My Dog
My Family
A Good Book
The Ability To Cook
Freedom of Expression
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future and what it holds for my daughter and I. The pursuit of love. As well as the next great story to tell.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually working, but on my rare night off if there is a new movie coming out I am interested in I will be there, or in/out to dinner with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm having a hard time with this section as I feel I am an open book. If you want to know something feel free to ask, however I feel I should put something here. I suppose the most private thing I am willing to admit would be that I have a complicated relationship with religion and spirituality. I could spend pages talking about it on here, but I would much prefer to talk to you about it one on one so feel free to ask me.
You should message me if
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You like what you have learned about me so far.
You enjoy gourmet home cooked meals. The great outdoors and all of its beauty.
You don't mind that I always seem distracted by the next story I am going to write.
And you don't mind that I am a father whose daughter lives with him part time.