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26 / M / Gay / Single

Indianapolis, Indiana

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 3" (1.92m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Capricorn and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Rather Not Say
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Dislikes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Latin (Poorly), Esperanto (Poorly)

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I am rational, intuitive, and willfull.

My Self-Summary

I love the forums and will always expand the number of interesting people that I know. So by all means follow me on twitter http://twitter.com/Sedentes (first send me a message here so I know who the hell you are) and don't feel weird when I email you and say you have a nice smile, or that your interesting, because yes, it's true.

Hm... Myself. Well I've never been a fan of writing about myself I just don't think I can capture the essence of me, Just not objective enough. I will try to make a stab at this.

I am that guy that seems to know everyone, I like being able to know a lot of people. So many stories you can learn from just one person; however, I am in reality an introvert. I much prefer to recharge my batteries by hanging out in my house reading a good book, or in a coffee shop talking with a small group of friends.

I will say; however, that several of my friends and an ex of mine have called me a "food, espresso, wine" snob. I believe it's due to same reason someone said I was "precise". Mostly not that I like the nicest things in this world, but because I expect a level of precision, I am very much my myers briggs type when you get to know me (INTJ). You just have to get past the illusion of social farced.

Something else that I have been called before is, "Dispassionately compassionate." What this means I am not sure but most people seem to agree with it. My only guess is that I am rather logical, but have a warm heart when it comes to people that come in to my life, even if it is only for a short time I still care about the people around me. I also am a firm believer in ""Act only according to that maxim by which you can at the same time will that it should become a universal law."
Now, If you really want to learn more about me or to get to know me outside of what I say, just email and or IM me.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm here from the east coast to get my education and be able to live for an affordable rate. I'm currently a second year psych student, I'm not entirely sure what I want to do for grad school. I know it will be some aspect of the study of the mind, basically I am not precisely sure where to focus my energies, the choices are neuroscience, clinical psych or social psych. As of right now I am going to Ivy tech to get all of my general education credits out of the way, so it's all about mooching off of the govt. and taking a massive amount of student loans to pay all of my bills because working 25 hours and week and doing 40 hours of week in school made me a sad panda.
At one point I used to make dogs pretty, and sometimes it was only by a little bit.
I have taken to biking around Indi a lot (edit bike stolen, police fail), recently I wish I could do it more but it is really cold so I will abstain until it is warmer out. So for now it's public transportation, mostly because I only very recently have started to learn how to drive.

I’m really good at

I've been told that I am a good listener, and I get compliments for my skills in massage (I even got employee of the month for it at my last job). My secret talent is cooking, I love to cook and finally have a gas stove in my apt. Homemade italian anyone?

The first things people usually notice about me

I have no idea... I'll have to ask people I know. My Eyes and My height a lot. Some girl I met once said "your very animated" Not that I have the slightest idea what that means, and the fact I can be and generally am rather flirtatious.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

A). Anita Blake series, Wheel of Time, Enders game and the series, merry gentry, Nightwatch series, Dragons of Eden, anything on Evolutionary psychology and very recent White Orleander.
B).\A Beautiful Mind, Gothika, Legally Blond, and my brain candy answer is fired up. Anything with an interesting enough story for my current mood work for me.
C). New Wave, Jazz, Bossa Nova, Industrial, Latin/ jazz house, electroclash. Generally most of everything but heavy metal and hardcore rap.
Some Bands would be: Zoot Woman, Wolfshiem, She Wants Revenge, The Presets, Earth Kitt, Colony 5, Friendly fires, tegan and sarah, Combichrist
D). I do like a wild range of foods, so I will just go with the things I have eaten in the past week or so: Hummus, Tapas, Indian, Thai, traditional american coffee shop fair, and cheese fries. Basically I will eat anything as long as it's vegetarian and not a salad. I do not eat salad, I do not and never had a fluffy tail, thank you very much.

The six things I could never do without

Meditation time, Friends, Food/water, My bag with all of the stuff in it; a Book, My laptop, Ciggies/Lighter, currency, and my ability to count.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I tend to spend my time thinking about a lot of "deep" subjects like; Philosophy, Ethics (and Metaethics), Evolutionary Psychology, The essences of life. Along with figuring out why people are the way they are.
However, I do love spending time being silly in my head, after all. Can one be enlightened without laughter?

On a typical Friday night I am

Very often it's dinner with some friends and then I go home by midnight to finish up school work. I'm lame, what can I say?
The sometimes going out to have a club soda at a bar, Yeah, I'm that guy.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have a Livejournal.

And I'm uber intolerant - of the Lactose.

You should message me if

Because of something in this profile/ pictures / whatever that makes you wish to get to know me better.