I think it would be really nice to have a special someone in my life again. Life has been filled with great friends, a job I love, plenty of dancing and singing and small adventures to while away the days quite pleasantly.
For about the last eleven years I wasn't noticing missing love in my life. I thought I could go on happily with all that great stuff and only the occasional hobby crush for a love life from here on out. But then a guy came along who knocked me off that course. And, while he tuned out to be not entirely straightforward about himself and is gone again, I am happy to have been reminded of how nice it could be to have a loving relationship with the an honest, emotionally available guy. So here I am embracing new possibilities..
My ideal guy... Hmm I don't have a lot of specific desires about physical things hair color, height and so on. I know that I like pleasant voices, and decent personal hygiene.
Will give this topic a bit more thought and finish later
I am looking for someone who is honest, even tempered, responsible, genuinely emotionally available, inclined to be faithful and who would really like to work on building a relationship that is beautiful and good and for the long run.
That chemistry thing is different for us women, I think. Men often write in their profiles that chemistry has to be there from the start. Maybe it's not all or even most women, but for me the comfort and trust of friendship come first and only then to I begin to notice the small things, like how much he savors rather than gobbles his food, or how much his dog seems to enjoy how she's being petted, or how gentle and responsive his only-friends-yet hugs feel. It's then that I feel that attraction that i think guys must mean when they say "chemistry."
There are many things it would be nice if we have in common, singing harmony, playing music, and going beach combing being in my top ten. But I'd bet if we loved each others' company we'd gather some few enthusiasms from each other and have no trouble finding interests to share.