hello all.I haven't been able to update my profile in awhile,or maybe just didn't have it in me to do it.Finally getting around to adding some changes to my life.To truly get to know me is to have a strait conversation with me without any expectations or pre conceived ideas about men like me.A few things that most people are interested in.I currently have a job and my own transportation.I did have my own apartment ,but gave it up for the time being to help my brother and his family as they go through some tough times of their own.I'm great with kids,but understand the separation between family time and adult time.I have not been a parent myself yet,but I respect anyone who is as it is really tough taking care of children today...especially as a single parent.I just ask that anyone interested in a different type of person..be it someone who opens doors and pulls out chairs,can be a bit childish and comical,but knows when to buckle down and work hard,understands there's more to life than material wealth,but will always keep priorities in check,and will love unconditionally,but will always show passion in ones self that's reserved for only that special someone...if this sounds like someone you might be interested in please feel free to message me and i will keep my eye's open as well.

I'm currently at a crossroads.I know that there are many directions that I can see,but know only one is meant for me.I have to know that things will happen for me when there meant to,and that I will have some control over the direction I travel from this moment on.Anyone else feel free will sucks sometimes.I heard two quotes recently that remind me of where i'm going...where i've been...and where i'm at right now.

The past is nothing but history ,the future is just a mystery,so be grateful to live in the here and now ,and remember why its called the present.

Keep moving forward...

I love to draw,write,develop my intellect,write poetry,play games,solve puzzles,spend time with a special someone,envelope my world in romance and lustful habits..From the example of someone's pictures I saw earlier today I have places some of my scanned artwork up on a websiteso people can see it.Its on.
http://fates21images.shutterfly.com

My quirky personality.Aquariuses are often a bit aloof and tend to do their own thing.

Writers Dean Koontz,Stephen King,and others...
Movies 10th kingdom,Princess Bride,shawshank,what dreams may come,transformers ...well you can ask me for more..
Music anything classic rock,most country,r&b hell just about anything..
food....you know the drill.

romance,good food,family,friends,my cat,my ways of expressing myself

Finding the one true soulmate that was made for me.I know that people fall in love every day and if my soulmate never appears i'm not afraid to find others to share my love with,but a soulmate is like love to the highest mark.Friendship and lust must both be available for love to exist in that way...

Looking for fun and excitement......would love to share my time with somebody and see what devilishly clever things we can come up with..life's to short to prude around and be stuck up....one day you want to be the person who says...wow I can't believe I did that....

Can't give away all my secrets..

You think we might have a connection,or just to have a good time..i'm open to suggestions..