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FatesHerald

35 / M / straight / Single

San Antonio, Texas

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Pacific Islander, White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
Athletic
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Military
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Kids
Has children
Pets
Languages
English

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I am quiet, laid-back, and open-minded.

My Self-Summary

Well, I've been here almost two years now, I really love my job and the friends I've made so far. I am a dad of a 4 yr old awesome boy :) who is with me. And I have a daughter who is 13 from a previous marriage who is not. I know my profile says single, but the truth of the matter is, I’m still legally married. My spouse and I are better friends than mates so we came to the decision to separate. However, due to medical reasons we have stayed married because my insurance is free. If this makes it so you don't want to chat or become "pen-pals" then no worries. If you want to know more about me and are willing to understand the realities of the situation then all the better.

I am not a player nor have I ever been. I am what I am and will never make excuses for who I am, or what I do in life. I will ALWAYS tell you the truth, so ensure you actually want the answer to the question and not just what you want to hear. I believe in honesty at all times, I'm not into BS and drama. I'm allergic to drama. So if you are one of those
people that feel like you need it to survive, then please don't contact me, I promise it won't be worth your time or effort.

I dislike rude and shitty people and anyone who is mean for the fun of it. The highlight of my life is my family, my daughter, and my son, and of course those I call friend. I think some people take that word for granted. But in my world, someone I call friend is usually just as close to me as my family. I couldn't ask for a better life, nor would I want one that is different.

Now that I've read that, it seems a bit heavy. I just like to ensure those that read my profile, know who they are contacting and there are no ambiguities of what I'm about, or what to expect from me. I'm a VERY happy person and truly love my life and my family/friends. I am always positive about the things that occur in my life and even the negative ones always have something to offer. :)

What I’m doing with my life

Loving it. I'm a very happy soul who will find the positive in all situations so I'm definitely not a poor-me.

I've got just under five years till retirement so I'm just riding it out right now.

Then it's back to massage therapy school and a whole new career.

I've gotten back into the running scene and finished my first half marathon last month. Getting ready for the Rock N' Roll in two weeks!

I’m really good at

Being happy. :) Loving my children, and my friends.

And hugs, let's not forget the hugs.

The first things people usually notice about me

I've been told it's my eyes. What do you think?

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

As far as all of these go. There are entirely too many of each that I enjoy and love.

Let's save this area for a real discussion

The six things I could never do without

My children

friends

books

good food

good discussion/debate

quiet time

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Ways to better myself as a human being

After careful consideration that sounds entirely too pretentious. Let's add-Porn. Ok, kidding. Well sort of. All guys think about porn. But that's no excuse. Let's just sayi spend a lot of time thinking about a lot of things. At least that makes me sound semi-intelligent. Right?

On a typical Friday night I am

Spending time with the little boy, no. Not the one inside my head, I mean my son. And yes. He is awesome.

And most likely sleeping as I've started running races on Sat mornings.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I believe in true love.

You should message me if

You're interested in anything you've read so far. And you're not a drama queen :)

You have/want piercings or tattoos

You know what Burning Man is. Bonus if you've been there.

You need/want a running partner from time to time.