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36 Sacramento, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–48
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Strictly monogamous
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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So, just recently, a very good friend of mine tried hooking me up with someone and was told that I look like an alcoholic. Because I. The picture that was shown my face was red! Wtf?!?! I am far from being one nor will I ever be! You know - looks aren't everything! Looks can be and always will be deceiving! It is what is on the inside that counts which is probably why I'll always be the last person someone actually would like! I'm trying to find the person the is going to be THE ONE for me. I am an INTP. Don't know what that is? Look it up! I want the one that doesn't mind the fact that I love to cook, sing, play bingo (yeah - it can be fun when you win), playing piano, bass or my drums.

I would love to have someone to come home to at night, share a glass of wine with while watching a movie or cuddling by the fire.
I have been told by many that I am sweet, kind, affectionate, caring, loving, super nice, well mannered and giving.

So why is it that I am still single? I am one of the last "true" gentlemen out there that still holds doors open for women, respects them, honors them and will do whatever it would take to make her happy! I'm not one of these guys that will swoon you over and then after they get want, leave you. I'm here looking for the real thing! I miss love and want it very badly.

I do have two beautiful daughters (9 & 10) that stay with me several times a month depending on my days off. They are the loves of my life and I would do anything for them. If you are looking for someone that doesn't have kids that are very loving and understanding and caring, I ask that you please move on. They are very independent and are very loving and caring just like their dad!
What I’m doing with my life
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I am first and foremost a military veteran serving proudly in the Air Force for 12 years - honorable discharge and medically retired. And now, I'm on the road a lot with my job, but I love what I do. Traveling in is my blood. Is it in yours, too? I am also part owner of the company that I work for! Gotta love stocks and bonds :-)

I just earned my third degree and this one is in Emergency and Disaster Mgmt which is basically a fancy title for Homeland Security or FEMA.

If it's a day off, then I love taking trips to Napa or surrounding areas to do some wine tasting or just sitting at home chilling at my place catching up on Jimmy Fallon or selecting a movie or two from my over 1,000 movies or you might just find me out with my golfing friends out on a golf course attempting to beat them. Hasn't happened yet, but hopefully someday soon, it will!
I’m really good at
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playing music, singing, cooking, cuddling, kissing, and a few sports, too!
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, my smile, my butt, how kind hearted I am and caring
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - anything by James Patterson or Richard Castle!

Movies - I'm game for anything. Yes - even a chick flick (not by myself of course)

Shows - Castle, Giants baseball, Duck Dynasty, Hell's Kitchen, The Voice, Family Guy, MasterChef

Music - mainstream is Country. Love it and love it a LOT. Dislikes - rap.

Food - as long as it isnt moving when I eat it - it's all good. And anything that I cook too :-)

SPORTS - SF Giants Baseball, Penn State Football, Pittsburgh Steelers football and Pittsburgh Penguin hockey, NASCAR (huge 24 fan), NHRA, Sacramento Kings, Sacramento River Cats
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
someone to be there for me
a roof over my head
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If I will ever find true love
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
depends - am I on a trip or am I at home? If I am at home, probably watching a movie with a good glass of wine or a mixed drink Or out with friends singing karaoke.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I guess you will have to get to know me better to find out the answer to this one

I will say that I come from a long line of musicians in my family. My great uncle was the late, famous drummer - Gene Krupa!

I will say this - if you love to wear boots - knee high or higher - you have scored bonus points with me already. I love a woman that wears boots. It is my weakness in a woman! :-)
You should message me if
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You like what you have read and have seen of me. I won't date a liar or anyone that would even THINK of cheating on me. Preferably someone that won't keep giving you hope and then finding out from someone else that there isn't a chance in hell. I hate people that screw with my emotions