Time for the Mandatory Description, but oh what to say? Who am I?
The sum of my parts? And what part will actually entice you to
connect with me? I am... me. My son who is ten and lives with his
Mom, gave me some insight the other day. He said, "Dad, you're a
real thinker kinda guy, you really know allot!" He was looking for
the word "Philosopher", and I suppose he is right. If it were a
different age I guess I'd be in a toga spouting ideas and teaching
the young philosophy and stuff. I love to learn. I love to look at
new things, go on journeys of discovery, and I love to enlighten
others. I am a child at heart and I love to be snarky and fun, to
do crazy things and just because things and generally be very free
and open and loving. I like cooking new things, trying new
recipes... I like going places, going to events or concerts or the
zoo or the botanical gardens or downtown Milwaukee or Chicago or
out to Lake Geneva to walk and shop and do touristy things or
anywhere would be fine if only I had you, somebody to do these
things with. I am lonely. I am retired for the most part with
nothing but free time to indulge my many projects, my garden, my
"work-in-progress" patio party zone, my art, my writing, my studies
of science and philosophy, my culinary endeavors. I would like to
share myself, my thoughts, my feeling, my truth with... someone.
Someone who reads this surely can see some merit in what I have to
offer, someone sweet and kind and loving who needs what I need,
someone to hang out with. Is it you? Could it be you? Can you look
past the faults of my existence and see beauty in my eyes? Will you
even stop to look? What a joy, to think that someone who reads
these word will see potential here for a future of loving
friendship and an end to loneliness, a beginning of togetherness.
At least... well, that is my hope. At this point in my life I don't
want to own anyone or play games or find a **** buddy or a girl
half my age. I want something real with friendship and going out
and kissing in public and holding hands and making each other feel
like we are not alone, that there is someone out there that really
gets me, that we are important to each other. I want to be
loved.
***And now for the other shoe....
I am a beautiful fun intelligent handsome person who can cook knock
your socks off meals that will truely make you burble with
satisfaction, cakes and pies and cookies too. I am all this but
before you contact me to take advantage of all that wonderfulness
take into account that I am also lucky because I survived a
horrible car crash in my youth. The accident put me in a wheelchair
for life, but that was way better than the alternative. I pushed to
be here, I want to enjoy a beautiful life with beautiful people
like everyone else. So my philosophy has always been "Screw the
wheelchair!", I am self-supporting and take care of all my needs on
my own but if you don't think you can deal with it, no troubles. If
on the other hand you don't care and you just want to meet a guy
with a wonderful personality that's way cool, drop me a note
stating that you're not a robot or a scammer and have the desire to
figure out who I am and see if I'd be compatible with your world.
Then we will see where it goes from there!