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35 Oakland, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 10, 2014
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Seeing Someone
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm nerdy and I love sci-fi. My idea of fun is dressing in costume and speaking in a bad accent. I'm poly, and have no interest in monogamy.

I have an unhealthy love for the color pink and all things glittery.

Also, I have a chronic illness and am currently disabled because of it.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a burner, ren faire, and Dickens fair nerd. I am currently trying to spend a lot of time creating things for those two hobbies. I make costumes and corsets, and am starting to work with wearable electronics. I spin poi (badly). In my limited spare time I hang out with my boyfriends, BR5AN, and the weird one who isn't on OKC.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
amusing myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
People have said that they notice my smile....and my minnie mouse ears...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Moon is a Harsh Mistress, Brave New World, A Clockwork Orange, Neither Man Nor Woman: The Hijra of India. Neil Gaiman is amazing and I love Jane Eyre.

Movies: Star Wars 4, 5, and 6, Star Trek 2, 3, and 4, Wall-E, Full Time Killers, Equilibrium, How to Kill Your Neighbor's Dog, Beauty and the Beast, Up.

Music: The Killers, Bad Religion, Jimmy Buffet, Barenaked Ladies, David Bowie, Bowling for Soup, La Roux, JoCo, Show tunes. When I enabled iTunes Genius playlists it created two mixes for me: Punk and Grunge. I am so hardcore...

Food: My favorites are Mexican, Italian, Indian, Japanese, Thai, and plain old diner food. I like trying new things. I adore ice cream.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my sweeties, books, my cats, my best friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How happy I am to be living in Oakland again.

What I should learn next.

What I should make next.

Whether or not cheese food really *is* what cheese eats to get big and strong.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging out
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
In general I am pretty much an open book, but if I revealed something here it wouldn't be very private, now would it?
You should message me if
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You don't think watching cartoons sometimes makes a person childish.
You like making things.
You don't think not watching current tv makes someone a freak.
You know where the nuclear wessels are.

Or you just want to chat.