I am Really, Chilled, and On Ice.
My Self-Summary
I'm not really all that into dating and prefer to make friends that
may or may not turn into something more. That "something more" is
important to me when I have it, but when I don't then I don't
really worry about it. It's been, ohhhh, about four years since my
last lady friend.
I'm up for anything, but being so chill if I'm left unchecked I'll
just sit around and read all day. If I have somebody to do
something with, I'll do anything. That's vague, so just replace the
word "anything" with whatever you want to do and go from there.
What I’m doing with my life
Going to classes to earn an associates of science and will earn a
bachelors in, maybe, physics. We'll see how that goes, eh? Back up
plan-shmack up plan.
Otherwise flinging food in hydeious park and trying to kill my ego.
I’m really good at
I'm not sure if I'm REALLY good at anything. I'm ok at everything,
I'm sure of that. Speaking of, why is this site called OK Cupid,
anyway? I want a REALLY GOOD Cupid.
I'm great at
philosophizing with myself, but
the words get lost when philosophizing with others.
I pull a mean
espresso.
I play ok
guitar,
maybe.
I write well, but would write better if I wrote more.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've been told on this very site that I have an absolutely life
ceasing sense of humor that could rival that of [place favorite
comedian here].
I've also been told here, right here, that I have eyes that could
cause any lady to faint from sheer pleasure. I have to wear
sunglasses just to date.
Well... Maybe I haven't been told this in those exact words, but
nonetheless those people are very kind.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
I read non fiction and classics mostly. Faulkner and Steinbeck to
Dante and Milton to Goethe and Gogol. Philosophy and science,
too.
Reading since last update:
Labyrinth: A book about man's desire to find hidden meaning in
science and nature.
An Open Heart: The Dalai Lama, man. Need I say more? This one
focuses on meditation and technique.
I like the mind bender movies. The Fountain, Mulholland Drive,
Eternal Sunshine, Pan's Labyrinth... I don't watch many movies
anymore, so any recommendations for a good mindfuck would be
returned with a favor of your choosing.
For most of my life I've been a death metal fan, but in recent
years I've fallen out of terms of extreme music and prefer
something a little more heart driven. Currently I'm digging Steven
Wilson's debut solo record, and for that matter anything he's done
with Porcupine tree. Otherwise Devin Townsend, Opeth, Agalloch,
Amorphis, Tool, Three, Russian Circle, Pelican, Spock's Beard,
Katatonia, Cynic. I'll stop here since nobody likes to read huge
lists.
Of course if you want a list of death metal, I'm not sure if your
computer could compute such a list.
Food...
Farm fresh,
baby. At least as much as I can find. No, I'm not a vegetarian. I
stay away from commercial meat products and put the effort in to
find the good stuff.
As far as cuisines go... I cook mostly
curries and Hungarian styled dishes.
The six things I could never do without
I abstain from these questions. Who has such little will that they
can't do without all but the necessities?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Where memories are stored, how closely we really are tied with
magnets, if a subtle consciousness is eternal. If the concept of
love is really all that important.
On a typical Friday night I am
Well, as I type this it is Friday night... so... shit.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
Fine, I'll stop pussing out on this question.
How about this: I have minimal social skills. I simply cannot read
physical cues, hear vocal tone inflection, or understand eye
expressions. It doesn't connect at all to me so I have a horrible
time at the beginning of friendships and relationships.
You should message me if
You should message me whatever you do.