I am generally a shy person until I get to know a person, when I'm comfortable with them, they'll see a whole other side of me. Sometimes I'm really loud, not necessarily bc I want all the attention, but just bc I am. I love to laugh and smile. I am not an intellectual snob, but do enjoy intelligent conversation. I'm not a genius by any means, but I appreciate when someone can hold their own while carrying on a conversation. I always try to look at things on the positive side and always look for the good in people. I have a hard time giving up on people and don't really think I can say I ever have. We may have drifted from being friends but it doesn't mean I gave up on them. I love to help people if I can. I don't have much but I am usually willing to share. I'm very compassionate and soft hearted. I've been told I am a bleeding heart. I am a romantic but sometimes feel like I'm alone on that. I try not to judge others. I am not a grudge holder. I am quick to get mad sometimes, but always quick to forgive. I hate being mad and hate it when people are mad at me. I tend to be a people pleaser. I don't always stand up for myself which leads others to believe I'm a doormat. But I see it as some things just aren't worth the fight. And if it is something I feel strongly about, Ill defend it. I always try to be real. I don't cheat or steal and I don't like lying. I want someone who is going to be real with me too. Someone who will treat me with the respect Ill show them. I'm not a queen, don't need to be treated that way. But if I'm special, let me know. And someone who will treat my son as his own. I try not to take life too seriously. I like to go do things with friends sometimes. And I am usually willing to try something new.
And please, let me just say I am not looking for hook ups. No one night stands, fwb, or casual sex. If that's all you're interested in, just move on.