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32 Cambridge, MA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 3:23am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Thai (Okay), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Have you ever found yourself in a foreign country desperately trying to pantomime "diarrhea"?

I grew up in a very rural, homogenous, socially conservative little New England town. Culturally isolated, creatively stifled and a little bored, I started to explore.

First, I thought I was going to be a politician and save the world. After the 2000 elections, I found it more enlightening to watch The Big Lebowski, party, read philosophy and take shots off the head in lacrosse. Apparently I am on a different path.

Somehow a stint at a think tank in DC and three years teaching English in Thailand cured my cynicism.

More philosophy, Freud, travel from Beijing to Bali, the evolution of consciousness, and a coup d'etat lead to a Master's in Psychoanalysis.

...and how to pantomime diarrhea.
What I’m doing with my life
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I direct a program at a non-profit dealing with children's mental health. I've heard the call (and sometimes the occasional voice).

Also, I live in a Zen Buddhist community. It's a different lifestyle and I'm grateful for that.

Ultimately my life, professional and personal, is oriented around human development. I lead a contemplative lifestyle. I'd like to share that with someone.

(Read: I'm super uptight. Help!)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Observing. Questioning. Growing. Reflecting.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I once asked a girlfriend what was different about me on the first date compared to the other guys she had dated and she said, without hesitation, that she could tell I was "genuine."

Then she said, "but I'm with David now. Goodbye."

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Lately I've been reading magazines: this month's Esquire is dedicated to a discussion of gender in culture - it's refreshing to have the topic appear in this context.

I hesitate to admit that my main source for news is the Economist and occasionally the Daily Show. (Great article on the economic challenges with higher ed in the US this week).

Movies: Somewhere, The Visitor, Big Lebowski, Man on Wire, Vicky Christina Barcelona, Her, Stranger than Fiction, Jiro Dreams of Sushi and documentaries in general.

Music: Bonnie Tyler - "Holding Out for a Hero" - infinite loop.

Food: All.

Places: My old apartment in Bangkok, the frog pond behind my childhood home, Central Sq. (I said it), Angkor Wat
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
As long as it seems like an adventure, I could suffice with little.

Apparently my love life is an adventure.

What brings you here? :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What influence, if any, what I do, say or think has on my mind or the minds of others.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Uh... what everybody else should be doing - recovering from a challenging week, rocking sweatpants/hoodie with a book and tea.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I think masculinity means getting up out of bed in the middle of the night when there's a crash in your girlfriend's kitchen.

I'm ready this time.
You should message me if
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You'd like to swap intellectual conversation and intrepid adventure for playful affection and goofy-filled shenanigans.

You'd think it would be totally awesome if someday we had to figure out how to pantomime "diarrhea" together..