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53 • Oxnard, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 22–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Yesterday – 2:51pm
- Native American, White
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body type
- Mostly other
- Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
- Working on masters program
- Science / Engineering
- Rather not say
- Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
Time constraints are my bane, there just is not enough of the stuff to go around. So I am working on integrating a big bucket list into every day and could really use some help here trying to find a balance.
Having labored some years on a stuck business it is past time to get on with life. I need to warn you though, I am not an average dulled out citizen with 6 pack and t.v. sports.
I am more intense than most, say music for example, to listen to popular radio is a physical, painful, suppression of gag reflex event for me, on the other hand the right Santanna, Satriani or for that matter any style of music with palpable soul is a nearly orgasmic experience, seriously. Try Ain't no sunshine when she's gone, if that fails to move you deeply then please move on.
I'm not yet clear of my working obsession, it still consumes much of me, though less every day. It's not like there is a light switch here. Likewise finding a companion/activity partner/mate is a continuum that defies these stupid catagories. I for one do not fit into a box while still breathing. and seek only a girl who knows what she is about
Sticking with goals and keeping a positive attitude despite life's "little" difficulties.
Meatless cooking that satisfy more traditional expectations.
Learning I have averaged a book a day usually one audiobook a day for the last 6 years
Massage having 3 years training in tui na, shiatsu, osteo manipulation, acupressure, I really enjoy giving a full hour massage leaving my victim semi comatose, fully relaxed with big smile
I both play(guitar) and listen to a wide variety of music jazz, rock, blues. EDM and the vital non commercial stuff that can be gleaned off late nite college stations, Go KCRW
Movies Shawshank Redemption, Pulp Fiction. all that edgy stuff that will not fit neatly in categories and have disturbing resonance not adjusted to happy audience satisfaction ratings
Cuisine: Spicy Thai food that stimulates the passions, good pizza with beer as nutritional perfection, a currently out of fashion grain and vegetable based diet that with occasional flesh that was basis for most civilizations, Actually the grains trained us to care for them with our civilization as a by product. As their worker ants we prepare and maintain much of the arable surface of the planet for their exclusive habitat and receive in payment, our primary diet as pasta, bread, rice, and nectar of the gods in the form of beer or the most sublime distillations of fine spirits such as Whiskey and Vodka served chilled and neat in a shot glass from the freezer.
Books: A history of the world in 6 glasses. How beer created civilization by keeping water safe to drink
1434 how the Renaissance was gleaned from a printed Chinese compendium of technology gifted the Vatican without ever crediting the source
1493: How the world was fundamentally altered as result of the Colombian exchange of plants, diseases, animals, religious subjugation and ecological upheaval
A short history of nearly everything-Bill Bryson How we actually learned about our world, ourselves and the universe.
Opinion" While science pretends unbiased objectivity great power is weilded in through organized indoctrination in schools validating old boy establishment taking credit for others work, dumb luck, accident, theft and treachery to maintain a profitable status quo not unlike the church of old.
The Bro Code, The wee free men(Sir Terry Pratchet) are a few.
Neuromancer and Snow Crash Sci Fi Epics
\Audio books Rock!
Memory: of Sun setting behind an island while floating on surfboard beneath coastal cliff and ends in spent embrace
Attitude: waking to a warm breeze and sunlight, smell of suntan oil, her scent Keeps me going for
Another Day this side of the dirt
Thank you Lord, may I have another
Six things? Whatever
Especially if you think that you can rock my world or are challenged finding a man who can keep up with you.
Like to carry on an intelligent conversation regarding most any technical, scientific, historical subject matter with an articulate guy as a means of determining potential compatability.
If you would like a great massage or more
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