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FemmeandLooking

49 / F / gay / Single

Seattle, Washington

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Looking For
Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Kids
Dislikes children
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am funny, easygoing, and an animal lover.

My Self-Summary

I like to think of myself as the kind of girl you can take home to mom but with that little extra...ahem..."something" that's reserved just for you. I'm extroverted, well-read, well-traveled, and well-educated but mostly I just love to laugh. My passions are animals (of all kinds, even creepy crawlies--you shoulda seen the spider that was in here last night!), socializing, reading, doing crossword puzzles, board games, being online (but not obsessively so), knitting, especially for others, and playing video games. Oh, and there's that eating thing I do occasionally. Okay, more than occasionally.

Oh, and I'm femme and monogamous.

What I’m doing with my life

Mostly I'm workin', hangin' out, spending time with my friends, blowing soap bubbles for my two cats Benny and Joon, taking day trips, and growing dahlias.

I’m really good at

Listening to others, having balanced conversation, talking about anything and everything, appreciating YOUR cooking (not mine), lazing around, traveling. Hmmm; this is a hard one to answer.

The first things people usually notice about me

I have no idea. Probably my personality. I have a reputation for being easygoing, a good listener, and friendly. Physically, people tend to notice my eyes or my smile.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Favorite of all time, "The Bridge Over San Luis Rey." Other than that, I love sci-fi, especially short stories, mysteries and books about travel.

Movies: Favorite of all time, "Monsters, Inc." Other than that, I love drama, adventure, fantasy, animation and British movies.

Music: Classical, especially Baroque, country, and ethnic music like Irish and Andean.

Food: Thai and Italian. Bring me some good pad thai and I'm all yours.

The six things I could never do without

Animals, friends, family, crossword puzzles, good books, good food.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The news, ethics, philosophy, religion, ecology, books.

On a typical Friday night I am

Out with friends or snuggled with my cats watching a Netflix movie.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Nuthin'. Face-to-face, I'm an open book; I don't much believe in skeletons in the closet but I can't think of anything I'd want to post here.

You should message me if

You are butch, brainy, brawny and funny, and would like a long-term relationship with a smart, warm femme. (I'll see if I can find you one. :-) )