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44 F New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Aug 10
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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When we're good to each other, we create a warm, safe refuge in a confusing and challenging world. If you agree, and you're an intelligent and sincere man, please drop me a line or two and let's see what we can make happen!
These days, my goal is to be content and confident, and to have a simple, comfortable, relativelydrama-freelife. I'm always working to improve, striving to be kind, honest, compassionate, supportive, fair and thoughtful.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm busy writingmagazine articles, trying to write fiction, enjoying many kinds ofmusic,hitting the gym 3-4 times a week, making things with yarn, reading a lot ofhistoryandscience,watching and readingcomedyand learning how tobelly dance.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Empathy, solving problems, improvising, comforting, questioning, and laughing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Most have pointed out my smile and my speaking voice -- a warm contralto that floats from soothing to authoritative and back again.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Hoo, boy. Where to begin? Where to end? Well... acoustic guitar, Alfre Woodard, almonds, Angela Bassett, Angelique Kidjo, apple pie a la mode,Ben & Jerry's(and please don't ask me to pick a favorite flavor!), Ben Harper, Ben Stiller, biographies,cashews, "The Colbert Report,” curried anything,documentaries,"Ed Wood," Eldar Djangirov, ginger, "How it's Made,” hummus, Jhumpa Lahiri, Judith Owen, Junot Diaz, kale, Kathy Griffin, the "Law and Order" franchise, "Le Show," Ludovico Einaudi, Margaret Cho, "Medium,”Michael Franti,"NOVA,” Octavia Butler, On Beauty, “The Paper,” peanut butter cookies,Peter Gabriel,piano (classical, jazz and New Age), potatoes, “Quantum Leap,” red bell peppers, Regina Carter, Robin Williams, Rodrigo Garcia, salmon, “Saturday Night Live,” Seal, Sisters of the Yam, “Studio 360,” sushi, superheroes, time travel stories,tofu(yes, tofu), trivia, violin, "This American Life,” "Wait! Wait! Don't Tell Me!" Wanda Sykes, Weird Al Yankovic, "The World," and many, many more...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Peace of mind
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my next moves in life; food;trivia;jokes and other funny stuff;journalism;music; self-improvement; stories I hear onNPR
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
in front of a screen of one type or another, alone or with others, at home or elsewhere, watching something hilarious and/or thought-provoking, with a ball of yarn and a crochet hook in my hands if I can get away with it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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On the internet, this is all you're getting: I read advice columns for fun. I also fantasize about being the subject of a documentary with everybody I know sitting in a movie theater watching it.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 38–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For short-term dating
You should message me if
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- You want to meet a woman who is smart, tough, mature, funny and not at all perfect.
- You expect and demand to be treated with respect, kindness and fairness because that's how you treat others
- Reading this profile has made youthinkand/orlaughout loud