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45 Boston, MA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 41-54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:48pm
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Not at all
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Dropped out of University
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
When we're good to each other, we create a warm, safe refuge in a confusing and challenging world. If you agree, and you're an intelligent and sincere man, please drop me a line or two and let's see what we can make happen!
These days, my goal is to be content and confident, and to have a simple, comfortable, relativelydrama-freelife. I'm always working to improve, striving to be kind, honest, compassionate, supportive, fair and thoughtful.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm busy working at a newspaper, enjoying many kinds ofmusic, doing yoga and/or the gym several times a week, making things with yarn, reading a lot ofhistoryandscience,watching and readingcomedyand learning.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Empathy, solving problems, improvising, comforting, questioning, and laughing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Most have pointed out my smile and my speaking voice -- a warm contralto that floats from soothing to authoritative and back again.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Hoo, boy. Where to begin? Where to end? Well... acoustic guitar, Alfre Woodard, almonds, Angela Bassett, Angelique Kidjo, apple pie a la mode,Ben & Jerry's(and please don't ask me to pick a favorite flavor!), Ben Harper, Ben Stiller, biographies,cashews, "The Colbert Report,” curried anything,documentaries,"Ed Wood," Eldar Djangirov, ginger, "How it's Made,” hummus, Jhumpa Lahiri, Judith Owen, Junot Diaz, kale, Kathy Griffin, the "Law and Order" franchise, "Le Show," Ludovico Einaudi, Margaret Cho, "Medium,”Michael Franti,"NOVA,” Octavia Butler, On Beauty, “The Paper,” peanut butter cookies,Peter Gabriel,piano (classical, jazz and New Age), potatoes, “Quantum Leap,” red bell peppers, Regina Carter, Robin Williams, Rodrigo Garcia, salmon, “Saturday Night Live,” Seal, Sisters of the Yam, “Studio 360,” sushi, superheroes, time travel stories,tofu(yes, tofu), trivia, violin, "This American Life,” "Wait! Wait! Don't Tell Me!" Wanda Sykes, Weird Al Yankovic, "The World," and many, many more...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Peace of mind
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my next moves in life; food;trivia;jokes and other funny stuff;journalism;music; self-improvement; stories I hear onNPR
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
in front of a screen of one type or another, alone or with others, at home or elsewhere, watching something hilarious and/or thought-provoking, with a ball of yarn and a crochet hook in my hands if I can get away with it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
On the internet, this is all you're getting: I read advice columns for fun. I also fantasize about being the subject of a documentary with everybody I know sitting in a movie theater watching it.
You should message me if
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- You want to meet a woman who is smart, tough, mature, funny and not at all perfect.
- You expect and demand to be treated with respect, kindness and fairness because that's how you treat others
- Reading this profile has made youthinkand/orlaughout loud