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34 • F • Alameda, CA
I’m looking for
- Guys who like girls
- Ages 26–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Yesterday – 7:58pm
- 5′ 11″ (1.80m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
- Working on university
- Art / Music / Writing
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly)
I'm a writer and a musician (ukulele, vocals, and the meanest kazoo you've ever heard! The shittiest piano player you've ever heard--seriously, I only use that beast for writing music).
I sing in a band (quirky, campy, theatrical torch songs infused with soul, blues, cabaret, throaty vocals, horns).
I'm a student, studying creative writing, anthropology and gender studies.
I have an overdeveloped sense of wanderlust, and love to travel and try new things. I make stuff, like costumes, paintings, and weird impossible projects that become possible through doing them. Does that make sense? I can explain...
Basically, I'm doing things that make me a happier, better person so I can change the world when I grow up.
Laughing (either loudly with my mouth open or quietly with my hands covering my mouth and tears everywhere...usually uncontrollably)
Being the best aunt ever.
Learning new things
Remembering dialog from movies and song lyrics
Inventing breakfast food
Collecting shiny objects
Forgetting people's names but remembering our conversations.
Goofy uncontrollable facial expressions that make it impossible for me to fool anyone.
Or if I'm meeting someone after performing... My PIPES!
Movies- Citizen Kane, Airplane!, Some Like It Hot, Strictly Ballroom, Dr. Strangelove, Team America, anything choreographed by Busby Berkeley, the Big Lebowski, Evil Dead 2, American Hot Wax, musicals, Kung Fu Hustle
Shows- The Wire, Boardwalk Empire, TrueBlood, Archer, Robot Chicken, House of Cards, Doctor Who.
Music- Etta James, Bessie Smith, Billie Holiday, Little Walter, Howlin Wolf, Leonard Cohen, the Coasters, Nouvelle Vague, Francoise Hardy, The Four Tops, Willie Nelson, Chuck Berry, Hank Williams, Sharon Jones and the Dap Kings, Jolie Holland, Freddi Price, El Radio Fantastique, Solomon Burke.
Food- cheese, sushi, mangos, beets, bacon, crispy pickles, Vietnamese BBQ pork sandwiches, chicken tortilla soup, anything from New Orleans, soup dumplings, breakfast.
Notebook and pen
Ukulele and vocal chords
A Super Comfy Bed
Friends and Family
How to make the world a better place.
What am I going to write about?, how to get through awkward moments gracefully, end of the world mythologies, what to learn next.
you are anything like my first love, Indiana Jones.
Bonus points if you want to chop wood with your shirt off while I watch. Drool.
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