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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27-32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Oct 17
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I try not to take any of it too seriously, except maybe writing, and in connection writing this profile thing. Constantly aware of that and all the other humanly contradictions.

I'm a well traveled, publishing professional. Prefer intellect, honest-stong and comfortably flawed people. The dark is where all good comes from.

I practice intuition, humormility, sincerity, and cooking occasionally. Casual but sincere, creative but practical.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Ambition with measured contentment.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
words, wit, understanding people, spontaneity, cooking while drinking, picture taking, and planning things when need be.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Best book of the year for me has been The Unknowns. Great stuff in there! Just finished Tim Kreider - We Learn Nothing. Reading my next Philip Roth. Some favs would be, Nick Hornby's High Fidelity, never saw the movie, book was great. Nick Flynn, Philip Roth, Augusten Burroughs, Murakami, Kawabata, Esther Freud, Hemingway...
West Wing, Coupling, Newsroom, Game of Thrones, Better off Ted, Futurama, Daria, Six Feet Under, Indie flicks, Wes Anderson films, Top Chef, actually anything to do with good cooking!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A sense of humor!? Water. My humanity. Your humanity. Words. Singular feelings (as in being aware of a single feeling and staying)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be honest without being too destructive to others.
You should message me if
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You have courage to be challenged by new things, you're not afraid of your flaws or of failure, you like thinking of food and making great meals, you enjoy being comfortable with silence, you're aware of yourself but don't abuse the power you carry within. You don't let the little things disrupt your bigger view. You know how to be free.