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Fidget37

41 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 27–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:37pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Please read my whole profile to get a good idea of me and what I'm looking for.

I try to be a balanced guy who places a premium on laughter and joy but also know when to be serious. Enjoy spirituality and self-reflection and growth but I love inappropriate humor all at the same time! I have integrity and believe in saying "please" and "thank you" and looking homeless people in the eyes (even before they attempt to stab me with a rusty shank). Heck, I'll look YOU in the eyes too. Got a masculine guy next door vibe.

I work out to stay in-shape and healthy. Enjoy meditation.

I've jumped out of an airplane, swung the trapeze and look forward to one day hang gliding and scuba diving among other things. Want to play paint ball and go wilding like a rough teenager in Central Park (jk), lol.

Proud actor. Unapologetic about that and my bravery in choosing to live a creative life.

I'm an investor and trader and that will get me ever closer to complete financial freedom. The Monday to Friday work week office paradigm doesn't interest me. I am for sure open to date someone who themselves does that kind of work if that makes him happy. I want my future partner to be happy in whatever setting fulfills him.

**I do not smoke cigs or do any drugs and look for the same. (see below for more on this). I don't mix well with people who numb their feelings/bodies out.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I try to live a life with some deliberation. My goal is to cast off the ego-driven aspects of life and be simple and clear and learn. Being playful and silly is fun. Other than that, I try to live in the moment.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
supporting and encouraging my friends. I can clean and organize an apt space like a mo-fo. Pretty good at listening as well.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height and my smile. ?? I hope they notice my "energy" too, for what it's worth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Classics like "To Kill a Mockingbird" and "Catcher in the Rye"...can't go wrong. "Why Our Health Matters." "The Disappearance of the Universe"--dry but really makes me question ideas I've held for awhile....interesting book. "Chelsea Chelsea Bang Bang" was great ....her other books made me laugh out loud on mass transit. Love autobiographies. Another brilliant book -"The Divided Mind" and loved the Gladwell books I read.

Movies: Sooooooooo many, I'm a film buff. My favorite all time movie is "Halloween" with Jamie Lee.

Music: On my MP3 now is Stevie Wonder, Footloose, Carly Simon, Cyndi Lauper, etc...

Food: My favorite is pizza. I try to eat organic when I can but not militant about it. Also love my mom's irish slop of mashed potatoes and beef----love that.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My friends
2. Millenium I.D. (mmm hhhmmmmm)
3. My colostomy bag (KIDDING!)
4. MOVIES
5. Grattitude
6. Humility
7. Humor

7! Broke the rules
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How foreskin should have atrophied over the course of evolution. Some things I'll just never understand. LOL>

Foreskin sends me running for the hills screaming like a girl. Not a fan at all. I mean, really, what was God thinking? Ugh.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Never too typical. Some times I am alone with a movie or book or hanging out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I was a little pyromaniac with my friends briefly in my youth. All very innocent of course--we never wanted to burn anything BIG-lol. We were mesmerized by matches and flames. This sounds so sick!
You should message me if
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you are sane, trustworthy, honest!!! (can't stand liars, especially those who lie on here about their smoking/drinking/drug use; what's the point when the truth will come out anyway and sabotage everything?), single, in-shape, fun and have emotional intelligence and a capacity for expressing your feelings. I gravitate to conscious mindful men.

A nice sweet thoughtful guy with a comedic edge goes a looooooooong way with me. Big time.

DRUG FREE (I include marijuana in this category--duh!; although if you only do it once in awhile level with me so I know to expect that, I can tolerate that-my one exception) and CIG SMOKE FREE is a must! No excessive drinkers/drunks either. *Respect my boundaries about these issues; it's a compatibility issue for sure.

Also, you are monogamous-minded! Not into open relationships.

If you want to embark on a quality, humorous, mindful, compassionate, supportive, lucid JOURNEY including ever growing intimacy and connection with another man then I AM YOUR GUY.