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41 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:08am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats

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My self-summary
Please read my whole profile to get a good idea of me and what I'm looking for.

I try to be a balanced guy who places a premium on laughter and joy but also know when to be serious. Enjoy spirituality and self-reflection and growth but I love inappropriate humor all at the same time! I have integrity and believe in saying "please" and "thank you" and looking homeless people in the eyes (even before they attempt to stab me with a rusty shank). Heck, I'll look YOU in the eyes too. Got a masculine guy next door vibe.

I work out to stay in-shape and healthy. Enjoy meditation.

I've jumped out of an airplane, swung the trapeze and look forward to one day hang gliding and scuba diving among other things. Want to play paint ball and go wilding like a rough teenager in Central Park (jk), lol.

**I do not smoke cigs or do any drugs and look for the same. (see below for more on this). I don't mix well with people who numb their feelings/bodies out.
What I’m doing with my life
I try to live a life with some deliberation. My goal is to cast off the ego-driven aspects of life and be simple and clear and learn. Being playful and silly is fun. Other than that, I try to live in the moment.
I’m really good at
supporting and encouraging my friends. I can clean and organize an apt space like a mo-fo. Pretty good at listening as well.
The first things people usually notice about me
My height and my smile. ?? I hope they notice my "energy" too, for what it's worth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Classics like "To Kill a Mockingbird" and "Catcher in the Rye"...can't go wrong. "Why Our Health Matters." "The Disappearance of the Universe"--dry but really makes me question ideas I've held for awhile....interesting book. "Chelsea Chelsea Bang Bang" was great ....her other books made me laugh out loud on mass transit. Love autobiographies. Another brilliant book -"The Divided Mind" and loved the Gladwell books I read.

Movies: Sooooooooo many, I'm a film buff. My favorite all time movie is "Halloween" with Jamie Lee.

Music: On my MP3 now is Stevie Wonder, Footloose, Carly Simon, Cyndi Lauper, etc...

Food: My favorite is pizza. I try to eat organic when I can but not militant about it. Also love my mom's irish slop of mashed potatoes and beef----love that.
The six things I could never do without
1. My friends
2. Millenium I.D. (mmm hhhmmmmm)
3. My colostomy bag (KIDDING!)
5. Grattitude
6. Humility
7. Humor

7! Broke the rules
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How foreskin should have atrophied over the course of evolution. Some things I'll just never understand. LOL>

Foreskin sends me running for the hills screaming like a girl. I mean, really, what was God thinking? Ugh.
On a typical Friday night I am
Never too typical. Some times I am alone with a movie or book or hanging out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was a little pyromaniac with my friends briefly in my youth. All very innocent of course--we never wanted to burn anything BIG-lol. We were mesmerized by matches and flames. This sounds so sick!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 27–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For short-term dating
You should message me if
you are sane, trustworthy, honest!!! (can't stand liars, especially those who lie on here about their smoking/drinking/drug use; what's the point when the truth will come out anyway and sabotage everything?), single, in-shape, fun and have emotional intelligence and a capacity for expressing your feelings. I gravitate to conscious mindful men.

A nice sweet thoughtful guy with a comedic edge goes a looooooooong way with me. Big time.

DRUG FREE (I include marijuana in this category--duh!; although if you only do it once in awhile level with me so I know to expect that, I can tolerate that-my one exception) and CIG SMOKE FREE is a must! No excessive drinkers/drunks either. *Respect my boundaries about these issues; it's a compatibility issue for sure.

Also, you are monogamous-minded! Not into open relationships.

If you want to embark on a quality, humorous, mindful, compassionate, supportive, lucid JOURNEY including ever growing intimacy and connection with another man then I AM YOUR GUY.

Oh, and let's not forget silly poop & fart humor, bring it on. We must all keep our inner kid alive.