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42 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 2:38pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats

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My self-summary
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Please read my whole profile to get a good idea of me and what I'm looking for.

The physical stats: 6'1", 185lbs. I work out 6-7 days/week now at the gym to stay in-shape and healthy.

I try to be a balanced guy who places a premium on laughter and joy but also know when to be serious. Enjoy spirituality and self-reflection and growth but I love inappropriate humor all at the same time! I have integrity and believe in saying "please" and "thank you" and looking homeless people in the eyes (even before they attempt to stab me with a rusty shank). Got a masculine guy next door vibe.

Enjoy meditation. Ommmmmm. Snore. Oops. Fell asleep.

I've jumped out of an airplane, swung the trapeze and look forward to one day hang gliding and scuba diving among other things.

Proud actor. Unapologetic about that and my bravery in choosing to live a creative life.

I'm an investor and trader and that will get me ever closer to complete financial freedom. The Monday to Friday work week office paradigm doesn't interest me. I am for sure open to date someone who themselves does that kind of work if that makes him happy. I want my future partner to be happy in whatever setting fulfills him.

**I do not smoke cigs or do any drugs and look for the same. (see below for more on this). I don't mix well with people who numb their feelings/bodies out.
What I’m doing with my life
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I try to live a life with some deliberation. My goal is to cast off the ego-driven aspects of life and be simple and clear and learn. Being playful, goofy, and silly is fun.
I’m really good at
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supporting and encouraging my friends. I can clean and organize an apt space like a mo-fo. Pretty good at listening as well.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Classics like "To Kill a Mockingbird" and "Catcher in the Rye"...can't go wrong. "Why Our Health Matters." "The Disappearance of the Universe"--dry but really makes me question ideas I've held for awhile....interesting book. "Chelsea Chelsea Bang Bang" was great ....her other books made me laugh out loud on mass transit. Love autobiographies. Another brilliant book -"The Divided Mind" and loved the Gladwell books I read.

Movies: Sooooooooo many, I'm a film buff. My favorite all time movie is "Halloween" with Jamie Lee.

Music: Mostly pop stuff.

Food: My favorite is pizza. I try to eat organic when I can but not militant about it. Gluten-free as much as possible too (slight allergy, nothing major).
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My friends
2. Millenium I.D. (mmm hhhmmmmm)
3. My colostomy bag (KIDDING!)
5. Grattitude
6. Humility
7. Humor

7! Broke the rules
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How foreskin should have atrophied over the course of evolution. Some things I'll just never understand. LOL> Ye Ole Slip Cover sends me running for the hills screaming like a girl. Not a fan at all. I mean, really, what was God thinking?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Never too typical. Some times I am alone with a movie or book or hanging out with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was a little pyromaniac with my friends briefly in my youth. All very innocent of course--we never wanted to burn anything BIG-lol. We were mesmerized by matches and flames. This sounds so sick!
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What kind of man do I want?

Kind, trustworthy, compassionate, thoughtful, conscientious, sweet, honest (can't stand liars and game players), single, athletically built, circumsized (Yeah, I went there!), fun,emotionally intelligent and a good communicator (this sustains and nurtures my attraction to someone).

I get real turned off by mixed signals and flakiness-not relationship building blocks at all.

DRUG FREE (if all you do is pot on a rarer occasion, I would not have a heart attack about that) and CIG SMOKE FREE is a must! No excessive drinkers/drunks either. I'm a social drinker (margaritas are my favorite).

Not into open relationships. What is this "mostly monogamous" ridiculous choice on the side menu? I believe in the sexual sanctity and intimacy of monogamy once exclusive dating is established.

Say hello if you are a quality guy!