Kink is an important facet of my sexual expression, but other aspects of my life make it impractical to wear on my sleeve. Despite the wonderful gains of relative social acceptance achieved by my open gay/bi friends, a kinky lifestyle still seems to require a high amount of living in the closet. (Though, were it totally mainstream, might it not loose a bit of its transgressive appeal?)
And so this adjunct profile. If you choose to reply, I would be happy to direct you to my vanilla profile if you would like a more well-rounded perspective.
Though I am not beyond connecting with someone for purely kink-based explorations, I also welcome a firm, grounded relationship with a like-minded woman!
You have stumbled upon the OKC profile of a single, safe, sane, straight, safe, sane, respectful, responsible, stable, accountable, genuine, honest/trustworthy, ethical, creative, playful, polyamorous, sex-positive, open-minded, novelty-seeking, experienced, poly-leaning cis-male Daddy/Dom.
Integrity and compassion are the virtues toward which I most strive.
A friend who knows me well once described my kink play style as "consistent, thoughtful, responsive, and devilishly compassionate."
Were we to meet in person, you would probably find me an affable, easy going, good natured, articulate, intelligent, confident, curious and respectful-in-public kind of gentleman. (I know that my face pic is necessarily lacking in detail. Some say I have a passing resemblance to Robert Downy Junior. I don't quite see it, but have heard it more than once.)
I don't live it 24/7. I am not a lifestyle Dom. More suit, vest and tie than leather pants.
It is not an integral part of my overall personality. But BDSM play does lend an appreciable, undeniable sexual power and magic to my erotic life!
I am interested in connecting with a local, like-minded, submissive, wicked, wanton woman for mutually spirited, toe-curling, satisfying, sex-positive, kinky encounters including bondage, sensory play, resistance play, role-play, impact play, things taboo, sexy outfits, orgasm control and denial, and (quite possibly) whatever outlandishly kinky thing you are thinking about this very moment!
I seek inspired sessions of kink play and good natured kinship.
I am not the type to play a strong Dom hand right out of the gate, and I won't slide a pair of handcuffs under the menu during a first date. I approach a woman as my everyday self, with a genuine interest in getting to know her.