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49 New York, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35-55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Full figured
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t want kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

If you don't have info in your profile, don't contact me. I don't understand why men put no info in their profiles. If you do not live in the NYC area, please don't contact me. I will not respond and you are wasting your time. If I can fill in the information, so can you. Please read my profile before contacting me.

I look at this profile as just a jumping off point since it's impossible to "know" a person with just a few words. So here it goes.

Random stuff --
I've lived in NYC longer than where I grew up, which makes me a non-native native New Yorker. I have a very dry sense of humor, a voracious appetite for learning new things and discussing everything and anything. I find it impossible to lie, which is often not a good thing. I am tremendously loyal to my friends. Watching the sea lions and big cats at the Bronx Zoo makes me happy. I could stay in the water all day. Does this make me part fish? I get really excited when I get a high word score in Scrabble. When I see people litter I want to push them into traffic. I have a great poker face, but don't know how to play poker. I want to learn. Want to teach me? But I will tell you now -- once I learn, I give no mercy. I once won a pair of handcuffs playing Skee-Ball in California, but airport security wouldn't let me take them on the plane. I wonder if the security guard kept them. I work out (gym and lap swimming) but don't particularly enjoy it (though I like the meditative quality of swimming).

Though I've lived in NYC my entire adult life, I have never walked across the Brooklyn Bridge, been to the Statue of Liberty, or been to Ellis Island. None of these are going anywhere, right?

Here are a few things that keep me happy -- movies in a theater (not on TV), Stephen Colbert , Bill Maher, Central Park, pie from Four & Twenty Blackbirds, a long subway ride when I'm reading a good book, the beach (and the sound of water), and the Mets (LGM!!!)

I love to travel-- the more exotic, the better. Or perhaps get in a car and just go.

I'm looking for someone who wants to get out and try all types of things, but is also cool with just hanging out, reading a book and just being. We can be together in the same room having an intense conversation, but can also not say anything without feeling the need to fill the air.

If you are religious (or say you are serious about Christianity) and make a point in your profile of saying you are "God fearing" (a term I will never understand) WE WILL NOT GET ALONG. DO NOT CONTACT ME. SERIOUSLY.

I am confident, spontaneous, intuitive, creative, and calm.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work in film/TV but am not a performer. I'm self-employed and can't imagine going back to an office-type job 9 to 5 job.

With the above said, I'm still trying to figure this out. Perhaps in 10-20 years I'll get it right.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Staring contests

Following recipes
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Too many to name, but here's a sampling: VANITY FAIR magazine (especially the political articles), NYT (in paper format), bad romance movies (the worse they are, the better) and sports movies, afternoon tea (3 hours of getting doped up on caffeine with good friends), Jane Austen (yes, a cliche), the perfect cannoili and pizza, 60s and 70s arena rock (Zeppelin anyone?), Tchaikovsky's Serenade for Strings, Joni Mitchell (yes, another cliche -- but she's a genius), Film Forum & Walter Reade, and too many to mention. It's hard to name just a few films but anything by Preston Sturges, George Cukor, William Wyler, Billy Wilder, David Lean, the Coens, Goddard, and Sam Peckinpah; Films -- The French Connection, Chinatown, Dog Day Afternoon, All the President's Men, MASH, Godfather, Sweet Smell of Success, Groundhog Day, Animal House, The Empire Strikes Back, What's Up, Doc; I know Where I'm Going, Philadelphia Story, Holiday, Brief Encounter, Hobson's Choice, The Apartment, the list goes on and on... The '70s is probably my favorite decade for movies.

I didn't mention books since there are just too many to list. The one thing I'll say is the New York Public Library system is amazing.

I am finally willing to concede the win to the iPad in terms of reading books. For a long time I kept saying "no, I love the feel of holding a book". Well, once I read those first few books on my iPad, it was all over. I love knowing that I can have 10 books ready to read, all in a slim container in my bag. It's perfect for reading while traveling. I just wish it existed when I read The Power Broker (1,200 pages in larger type for some reason). My back would have been much happier as I carted it around in my backpack.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My iPhone (so I'm not tied to my computer and can wander the world and STILL work and get paid)
2) my passport
3) my unlimited Metrocard
4) my friends
5) the beach/ocean/swimming
6) travel
6a) sincerity and honesty
6b) compassion
6c) curiosity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How any biped could be a republican...and all that follows this allegiance.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Since I'm self-employed and my time is my own, weekends don't mean as much to me. But my ideal evening is getting together with friends for dinner/movies and hanging out for hours.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I can't remember jokes

I hate cilantro
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are not interested in emailing each other indefinitely, but want to meet up. I'm not looking for a pen pal.

You are NOT 25 (or anywhere in your 20s) . Really. Please don't contact me. I will ignore you. You're not being cute or charming by contacting me and saying "do you like younger guys".

You live in NYC (not outside this area).

You think that going to a Mets game is a perfect way to spend an afternoon/evening.

You have a face photo. Not a photo of your arm or you in some weird costume to show your "creativity", or ONLY your dog (though I'm sure it's way cute), or a sunset. Face. If I can post photos of myself, so can you. I'm not going to respond if you don't have any photos.

You're not that person who sits down at a bar or table and automatically puts your cell phone on said bar or table. All this says is that you may have something much more interesting or better to do than sit with me.

You care to.

[A word to those who contact me... I will never respond to anyone who says "hello dear" or "hello darling". You should NEVER use terms of endearment to someone you don't know. It's just completely inappropriate.]