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38 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 14
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them

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My self-summary
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I've been changing a lot this year so at this point I'd almost say I'm under construction. I've switched from waking up before 8 to waking up before 6, I'm in way better shape than I was a few months ago, I'm setting and making progress towards longer term goals. And I'm starting to reach the point where I wake up happy to be me (one of the uber-goals).
I'm still sarcastic, honest, good at math, conversation and vicious at word games. If you ask, I'll let you almost win.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Work-wise I write software and systems and am a semi-professional paranoid. Personal life wise I'm putting serious work into myself. This includes a lot more exercise, volunteer tech consulting, growing a small art collection, finding and nurturing new friendships and training for a tough mudder. This is my typical problem-solving approach - fire everything I have at a problem, see what sticks and light a fire under those. For instance, I've fallen in love with TRX's and am remembering why I love being in shape - not quite one arm push-up shape but fingertip push-up shape. Useful for giving massages :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Word games, biking in traffic, making and eating salsa, programming stuff. Reminding people what we were just talking about. Making off-color jokes. Communicating. Massage.
I also make stir fry, chili, salsa, chocolate, pickles. And soup.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I seem to grow on people so I think I do first impressions like a mediocre whiskey - burns the first time but the second glass makes you feel good.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorite book is Snow Crash. Close second is Enders Game. And i think Fast Food Nation should be required reading. Loved East of Eden.

The best movie of all time is Army of Darkness. It's also my favorite. I have been fixated on Kick Ass lately. Matrix, most Tarantino films, Trekkies, John Woo's Hong Kong films, Shaolin Soccer. And anything with Bruce Lee.

I like almost all foods, but if I were forced to settle for one for the rest of my life, it'd be a tough choice between Mexican, sushi, dim sum, and falafel.

I'm not a music buff but I listen to a lot of electronic, and in an earlier life rap. And I just discovered Caravan Palace - they're awesome.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm trying to nail down things I want. Asking for a list of things I already have? Whiskey and my bike and my people.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to fix the Internet when it breaks. Current events, politics. Who I want to be, how to get there. Privacy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends, sometimes at an art opening. Or recovering from the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I regress to age 12 when handed a water gun. Unless you want to get silly do not hand me a water gun.
You should message me if
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You have some or all of these qualities: funny, passionate, smart, charming, strong, a little bit smarter than me; are looking for a guy who's supportive, silly, sarcastic and not quite perfect. You like or play roller derby.

I'm looking for a good partner. I really light up around warm, extroverted people so if that sounds like you, say hi! And I have a thing for strong women.