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37 M Edmonton, Alberta, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:00pm
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, French (Poorly), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a shy, straight male, divorced, whose career is working with the mentally and physically challenged.
I moved back to Edmonton Spring of 2013 after some time away, and am trying to expand my social circle with some luck so far.
That's not much of a summary, though, so I guess I should expand at least a little bit.
I'm a pretty laid back sort, I like to read in my spare time and would rather have a conversation over tea or coffee than spend time in a noisy and crowded bar. I enjoy video games from time to time, I love going for a walk and playing with snow. I enjoy cooking, I love trying new foods (especially spicy ones).
I tend to overthink everything.
I'm a fan of science fiction and fantasy novels, role-playing games, and generally a lot of pretty geeky stuff. I have pretty ecclectic tastes in music, but lean away from harder syles.
What I’m doing with my life
I was lucky enough to find the career that was the perfect fit for me almost thirteen years ago, and I can't imagine giving it up for anything. I've worked with a few different agencies, but as far as I'm concerned working with the mentally challenged is what I'm meant to do with my life, and I'm quite happy with that.
The first things people usually notice about me
The first things people usually notice are that I'm tall and that I do have psoriasis.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm a big Neil Gaiman fan, my autographed copy of American Gods is a person treasure, and I enjoy reading non-fiction by Michael Parenti or Arundhati Roy. I also love stories of the pulp fiction era, with a special place for H.P. Lovecraft.
I listen to Bob Dylan, Leonard Cohen, Tom Waits, Jann Arden and quite a few other musicians. I'd rather listen to a song that makes me think than the typical Top 40 hit.
The six things I could never do without
My dice, I have a love of them that occasionally confuses people.
My books, I'm rarely without at least one no matter where I am.
My music, to relax and let me shut out the world for a while.
My family, both relatives and my closest friends.
My computer, which connects me to friends and family around the world.
My career, I can't imagine doing anything other than working with the mentally challenged.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Eccentric schemes I would love to pull off. Lately my list of what I'd do if I ever won the lottery includes funding the creation of the world's largest Kilroy, and a ballet production of Shadow Over Innsmouth (to be followed by an opera of Call of Cthulhu).
On a typical Friday night I am
Working, my current schedule is evenings Thursday to Monday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a thing for brown eyes, and I'm completely lost on the point of tattoos.
I've also given up on the idea of pretending that I don't have an obsession with dice, to the point where I've had dreams about them.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're completely comfortable with mentally challenged people. Isolating my career from the rest of my life is something that I could not, and absolutely would not do.
You're not into head games. If you're going to be using "The Rules" as your playbook, you're reading the wrong profile.
I'm generally the "friends first, date later" type, so if you're looking for a friend with the chance that it might grow into more, feel free to send me a message.
You don't mind that my best friend is a woman and I talk to her almost daily.
I'm also looking for someone who owns her own set of polyhedral dice, or at least knows what they are as a sort of informal geekiness test.
If you're not polyamourous. No offense to the polys out there, but my ex lived up to almost every negative stereotype and I'm not willing to go down that road again.