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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 37-52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 20
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
A little extra
Atheism and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Dutch (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm just as comfortable in an evening gown and heels as I am in a
mini-skirt and blouse.

which is to say--not at all.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am putting my shirts on right-side-front... or striving to. I don't put them on backwards very often at all, but I don't want to brag about it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
creating; hitherto unexamined thinking
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
hmmm... I'm not sure I'd really know the answer to that. I suppose you'd have to ask them-- the 'people'.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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any fleeting sensations that deliver me--even for a moment--from the absurd, envious possessiveness I feel toward the utterly indifferent galaxy of molecules that are temporarily under my control, yet are beholden to nothing...

...any firelight shadow-forms on the Cave wall; any well-thrown throat tones; any clever scratchings made in clay tablets, or even ink on paper; any satisfying, belly-filling repast; any ANYTHING that keeps my joyful, childlike ignorance (if only for a moment) away from the heavy knowledge that the void is approaching, and it's moving all-to-quickly...

Traveling is a favorite of mine too. Although it's not a Book, Movie, Show, Music, or Food, when it's done right, it includes all of those things.

I enjoy visiting pretty much anywhere. Europe, especially the Netherlands and France... Asia, particularly Japan; the Americas, including the U.S of the Americas; big cities, desolate backwoods, desert... most anything except suburban strip-mall-sprawl.

Recently I've discovered how much I love the mountains and valleys of Colorado. Glenwood Springs was particularly groooovy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
proper design; thoughtful implementation; meaningful philosophy; scary-smart women; big global leaps; Schrödinger's cat.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the end...

...and the Beginning that follows.

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
getting by.

employing/enjoying whatever behaviors scratch my itch in the current time/space/circumstance.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
actually I have no qualms about admitting most of my private thoughts...

...not sure about doing it here, though. I guess you could send me a message marked ATTN: private thoughts dept., and we can let them handle it.

well... here's one I just thought of. I don't like to admit it but, I have an aversion to being yet one more guy who lists casual sex as one of the things he's looking for. Not that casual sex is necessarily a bad thing. It could by kinda jazzy... especially if the woman is cool, smart, and interesting to hang out with, too.
You should message me if
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you see fit to do so.

and, perhaps if you are wickedly smart and would enjoy spending some time together--laughing, playing, and wondering, about this, that, and the other thing.

you'd like to mutually experience being... for an evening, a month, a year, or