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I am integrity-driven, dutiful, and idealistic

FireFenian

31 / m / straight / Single

Baltimore, Maryland, United States

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Ethnicity N/A

Height 6' 3" (1.90m).

Looking For New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners

Smokes No

Drinks Sometimes

Drugs Never

Religion Agnosticism but not too serious about it

Sign Gemini but it doesn't matter

Education Graduated from college/university

Job Computer / Hardware / Software

Income $70,000-$80,000

Kids Likes children

Pets Likes dogs and Owns cats

Languages English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary

I am intelligent, honest, caring, and intensely loyal to my friends. I am also the sort of person who needs to have some sort of important, hands-on work in my life. I have a great full-time job working with computers, but I also love the fire department. I am a voluteer firefighter/EMT/rescue tech, and it is the most rewarding experience in the world. In what free time I do have between working, volunteering and grad school, I like hiking, camping, rock climbing, having a beer at the bar with friends, watching a movie or football game, playing boardgames, or whatever else seems to strike my fancy at the moment. Despite all the time I spend with career and volunteer related persuits, I am definitely not a work-a-holic. I believe that "work hard, play hard" is the only recipe for a truly happy life.

I believe that those without integrity are nothing. I believe that those who do not study history do not understand where they come from. I believe that without knowing where you come from you cannot know where you are going. I believe that those who do not at least try to make an impact on the world do not truly live. I believe that people should do what makes them happy so long as it doesn't harm others. I believe that pleasure is not sinful. I believe that those who would judge others based on actions that harm none are a sad and pathetic lot. I believe that those who do not feel fear are fools, but no less so than those who allow it to shape their actions. I believe that it is impossible to have a healthy romantic relationship with another if you haven't learned how to be happy and comfortable on your own. I believe that smiles and laughter are the best therapy for any ailment. I believe that "You must be the change you wish to see in the world." (Mahatma Gandhi)


What I'm doing with my life

Trying to make the world better a little bit at a time. Oh, and I just started working on a masters degree.

I'm really good at

Fighting fire, EMS, computers, being there for my friends, listening, keeping a level head, communication, cooking, lots of other stuff...

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me

My height

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

a) First Due Baltimore, Ender's Game, The Killer Angels, Lord of the Rings, We Were Soldiers Once And Young, David Eddings, Robert Jordan, Tom Clancy, Eavan Boland, W.B. Yeats, A Song of Ice and Fire, Blackhawk Down, The Last Men Out

b) Serenity, Ladder 49, Boondock Saints, Braveheart, Lord of the Rings, Michael Collins, The Outsiders, 10 Things I Hate About You, American Beauty, Fight Club, The Usual Suspects, The Italian Job, In the Name of the Father, The Last Samurai, Shawshank Redemption

c) Johnny Cash, Bruce Springsteen, Evanescence, Toby Keith, Indigo Girls, Dropkick Murphys, New Model Army, Seanchai, VNV Nation, lots more...

d) Steak, sushi, stir-fry, just about anything well-prepared

The six things I could never do without

family (which very much includes my friends), something to believe in, the fire department, laughter, boardgames, campfires

On a typical Friday night I am

at the firehouse or out relaxing with some good friends and a beer.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here

I don't really hide much. All you have to do is ask.

You should message me if

You can tell me about something you believe in strongly enough to risk your life for. You know yourself. You don't take yourself too seriously. People who bring the drama piss you off. You realized without being told that "something to believe in" above doesn't necessarily mean religion.

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