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FireFenian

35 / M / Straight / Single

Baltimore, Maryland

His Details

Last Online
Today – 1:28am
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I need to be doing something that I think makes a difference in the world. In my vast expanses of free time (see "What I'm doing with my life"), I enjoy hiking, camping, rock climbing, having a quality beer at the bar with friends, watching a movie or football game, playing boardgames, or whatever else seems to strike my fancy at the moment. Despite all the time I spend with career and volunteer related persuits, I am definitely not a work-a-holic. I've found that "work hard, play hard" is the only recipe for a truly happy life.

I believe that those who do not study history do not understand where they come from. I believe that without knowing where you come from you cannot know where you are going. I believe that those who don't know where they're going tend to blunder into walls, but are easily identified by their bruised foreheads. I believe that pleasure is not sinful. I believe that those who do not feel fear are fools, but no less so than those who allow it to shape their actions. I believe that smiles and laughter are the best therapy for any ailment. I believe that "You must be the change you wish to see in the world." (Mahatma Gandhi) I believe that this is quite enough "I believe" statements.

What I’m doing with my life
I am a full-time software developer and a volunteer firefighter/EMT/rescue tech. But I'm not busy at all. Nope. Not me.
I’m really good at
Fighting fire, EMS, computers, being there for my friends, listening, keeping a level head, communication, cooking, lots of other stuff...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
a) Name of the Wind, First Due Baltimore, Lamb, Ender's Game, The Killer Angels, Lord of the Rings, We Were Soldiers Once And Young, David Eddings, Robert Jordan, Tom Clancy, Eavan Boland, W.B. Yeats, A Song of Ice and Fire, Blackhawk Down, The Last Men Out

b) Blazing Saddles, Serenity, Ladder 49, Boondock Saints, Braveheart, Lord of the Rings, Michael Collins, The Outsiders, 10 Things I Hate About You, American Beauty, Fight Club, The Usual Suspects, The Italian Job, In the Name of the Father, The Last Samurai, Shawshank Redemption

c) Johnny Cash, Bruce Springsteen, Evanescence, Toby Keith, Indigo Girls, Dropkick Murphys, New Model Army, Seanchai, VNV Nation, Show of Hands, James Keelaghan, Jiggernaut, lots more...

d) Steak, sushi, stir-fry, just about anything well-prepared
The six things I could never do without
Family (which very much includes my friends), something to believe in, the fire department, laughter, boardgames, campfires
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can make my neighborhood and my city better despite the best efforts of the political class.
On a typical Friday night I am
At the firehouse or out relaxing with some good friends and a beer.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't really hide much. All you have to do is ask.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You can tell me about something you believe in strongly enough to risk your life for. You know yourself. People who bring the drama piss you off.