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FirefighterBlu3

42 / M / Gay / Available

Delray Beach, Florida

His Details

Last Online
Nov 30, 2011
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio but it doesn’t matter
Education
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
$70,000–$80,000
Offspring
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
gay, firefighter (currently a geek), linux geek. i like sunny days and sunny dispositions. drama, dishonesty, and fake just pisses me off. i write software, do construction, work on engines and love volleyball, tennis, hiking, camping, electronics - as in little chips and things you solder, embedded computers, reef aquariums, freshwater aquariums, dungeons and dragons/D&D and so much other stuff it took me a lifetime to get so much of it done. i do have a boyfriend. spirituality++, religion--.

to make things simple, i keep my list of profile and contact URLs here on my own server. if you want more contact information about me or want to see my other profiles, visit my personal contact page which is https :// blue-labs.org /~david/contact.php (remove the spaces) i'm a gay guy. can you imagine how many people still ask you if you're gay when you tell them you are? my name is david, again, i do have a boyfriend, he is first in my buddy list on myspace. i work out frequently at the gym, go to the nude beach on weekends, mess with electronics, writing computer software like python based tools for forensics and system management, computer hardware, electronic gadgets usually with microcontrollers, building things with power tools, landscaping, cooking, painting, woodwork, working on my mustang, etc, etc. i bleed a lot, meaning i get a lot of cuts and scrapes. i'm masculine but love getting flowers, especially roses, and teddy bears. ...and chocolate! and my favorite dream is snuggling on a soft rug in front of a blazing fireplace, with snow falling outside the cabin.

i have been in Fire/Rescue off and on since 1987 so i have a lot of Fire/Rescue experience. however, my current job is Network Security Engineer. i still write the dispatch messaging software for my fire station up in Connecticut. if you feel like emailing me about it, go ahead.

my current projects include messing with my mustang. part of this project is geeking out with the car's internal electronics. on my desk right now is a digital speedometer i'm designing.

i am a pretty happy person generally but stupid people annoy me off. well, stupid people and an overwhelming amount of drivers in South Florida. it’s referred to as God’s Waiting Room down here, but i tell you, i feel like i’m in a Mario Kart game with really really bad players. i am constantly amazed these people haven’t been struck down by Darwin decades ago.

i'm anti-drama, i usually use all lowercase letters for everything but i mix it up ;) i don't do the typical gay scene (spend every night of the week at the clubs and bars and spin drama like it's worth its weight in gold) and gossip and i get really bothered by people who constantly criticize others.

grep for the URL listed in my profile above, blue-labs.org/~david/contact.php has my IM and profiles information. hmm, wonder why i have to put this in here twice or more ^_^ ;-) so, eh, yeah. did you really read my profile ;-)

an important note i'm not in the closet and i'm pretty free with admitting i like fucking guys. not girls. ever. if you're in the closet you probably don't want your mom asking me about my girlfriend or what we did when you stayed over *big eyes* 'nuther thing, there might be ½ an ounce of prude in me but it'll be hard to find. i'm fairly honest and open with my opinion of you as well - but that doesn't mean i'm rude. why am i on here if i have a boyfriend? we enjoy the company of gay friends, sometimes we enjoy their intimate company. friends in and out of the bedroom are far better than anonymous hookups.

beaches - nude beaches too ;-) are something you can tempt me with easily. i love getting tan, i love being by the water, and of course, the physique of a toned male body =]

i am an industrial geek, curiously funny, and looking for stimulus

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What I’m doing with my life
firefighting, EMS, writing software, planning for my dreams to become reality, enjoying my boyfriend, writing more code, D&D campaigns, building things out of lumber (wood), and enjoying pretty much every day that comes to pass.

there are only a few significant goals i have in my life at the moment.

  • ‣build an intelligent self-sufficient house on a large plot of land
  • ‣write opensource software pkg for NFIRS and other fire/rescue needs
  • ‣make lots of little electronic gadgets
  • ‣spend quality time hanging out and cuddling [or more] with friends
  • ‣being the best boyfriend ever to my boyfriend, forever
  • ‣living to see the day that Microsoft goes down in flames and the world recognizes the prowess of Linux

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I’m really good at
a LOT of things, including cooking, windows (glass ones, not fuck-rosoft ones), meddling under the hood, improving our house, etc ;)

i'm very creative, imaginative, and definitely very good with my hands. whether i'm doing crafts with small parts, or building things with lumber, i enjoy it and i usually get plenty of compliments. i think creativity and spontaneity are to very important spices in the broth of life

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The first things people usually notice about me
my tan or my ass, or that i nearly always have my laptop with me! :) hey, sometimes that's the only chance i get to do important code updates or D&D prep work *laugh*

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
favorites? favorites... my favorite things change at whim depending on my mood. seriously. one day i love burgers, one day i love salad

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The six things I could never do without
my boyfriend stephen, my vital organs - which includes my penis and nuts, the sun, love and cuddling and nookie, friends, and especially overly playful fun friends ;-)

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
linux, ems, emt, firefighter, writing code, writing web pages, electronic gadgets, blinky things and breadboards, WHY PEOPLE USE ALL CAPITAL LETTERS, and where in the hell are the brains of most people?

*looks in the sofa cushions*

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On a typical Friday night I am
movies/dinner/park/lake/beach/home. but RARELY a bar or club

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i'm a sucker for falling in love with the wrong guy, except my current one is pretty dang good! just over 5 years together and zero fights! beat that! ;-)

oh, and i have a few mild fetish interests, share yours and we'll compare

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I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
if you're cute and fun and want to snuggle or hang out with me or us (it's usually an US thing). if you do wanna chat with me (not on here), please see my contact page up above.

if:
‣you're curious
‣you are a FF/EMT or like fire and ems
‣if you use Linux
‣if you are into electronics, particularly embedded computing devices etc
‣if you're cute and sweet
‣if you enjoy spending time [maybe intimate at times] with a couple
‣if you want to be just friends and hang out
‣if you have an interest in D&D

i have a boyfriend and neither of us are looking for "discrete" 1-on-1 love affairs or secret boyfriends, but we do play with others - usually we play together, sometimes separately. we would love to meet friendly guys in the area for offline fun, i.e. real life.

october of 2011 was our 5th anniversary and in my opinion we’ve got one heck of a great relationship!

we enjoy a variety of activities so feel free to ask. we play D&D but i do NOT spend a lot of time on it. if you play, say hi.

chances are highly unlikely that you and i (or we) will meet you in real life simply due to the odds of how many people we encounter online and how many we actually meet...not because we don't want to, but because it just isn't feasible to travel around and meet everyone. if you feel like visiting us and we have invited you then by all means come stay with us. sadly, however, online infatuations usually are just short fantasies that are unlikely to go anywhere regardless of the enjoyable lust involved. sigh, and 'tis so likely that i wanted to wiggle around with you.

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