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Fireflyaboutu

36 / f / bisexual / Single

Columbus, Ohio, United States

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Ethnicity White

Height 5' 11" (1.80m).

Looking For New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating

Smokes When drinking

Drinks Sometimes

Drugs Never

Religion Other but not too serious about it

Sign Aries and it's fun to think about

Education Dropped out of college/university

Job Banking / Financial / Real Estate

Income $20,000-$30,000

Kids Has 1 child

Pets Likes dogs and Owns cats

Languages English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary

Humm.. I tend to be too analytic for my own good, I'm told. But I'm convinced that when I meet the right person, he or she will understand and we will have very stimulating and mutually enjoyable conversations. I like the beach (miss it, grew up in CA), camping around here (lots of beautiful places here), being around and riding horses, computer gaming, cooking, or anything to do with animals. I love good food and intelligent conversation. I am not a vegetarian yet, but I eat a lot of vegetarian food, and very little meat, so I am seriously thinking about making the leap.

What I'm doing with my life

I work on a computer all day in banking, doing excel sheets, working on mainframe systems, etc. I've been there for 6 years and I'm ready for something new. I've been selling Avon for the past 9 months, in my spare time. I enjoy Avon because it helps me stretch myself (I am somewhat shy by nature), and meet new people. I am looking for an opportunity to work on a horse ranch, since working with horses is a lifelong dream of mine. Other than that, I have a six year old son, who is the love of my life, so I'm just enjoying him and trying to raise him to be the best man he can become.

I'm really good at

Communicating. Hopefully you are too! I would love to meet that person who I can stay up all nite talking too, never tiring of each other's company. I also think I'm pretty good at gardening, cooking, and fish keeping.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me

The first thing that people notice about me in my height (I am very [tall for a woman, 5'11". I have also been told that have incredible blue eyes.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Recently I have been reading The Neanderthal Parallax by Robert J Sayer. I am impressed with him as a scifi writer who did a lot of research on human archeology, before he even tried to write a scifi book with no tie at all to reality. I used to read the classics alot, then went through a reading self help phase. Now am enjoying a mixture of fiction and books that generally tell me more about the world around me. I just started a book called "Saving Darwin" about the conficts between science and religion about creation vs evotion. Very interesting. Favorite music: I like alternative and techo, some hard rock but not like death metal.. Favorite movies: the terminator series (LOVE Linda Hamilton), Total Recall,David Lynch movies, like Lost Highway, Muhullan Drive, and both the Wild Orchid movies, Mad Maxx, and in general anything sci-fi, fantasy, or drama. I don't watch TV very often, but the one show that I can't get enough of is Lost. Foodwise, I try to keep it healthy. I like mexican, itallian, american, and vegetarian. That being said, I don't eat our all that often, for obvious reasons of trying to keep it healthy.

The six things I could never do without

I think it's best to learn to be happy in any circumstance and try not to get too attached to anything in this life. That being said, the things that I am most attached to are: my son, human contact, food, shelter, intellectual stimulous of some sort, hope. Sorry to name off the obvious, LOL. Clothing came to mind, but if I was stranded on a desert island alone, I'm thinking that clothing wouldn't be my top concern (LOL).

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The future, what I want to do/be "when I grow up", the past, regrets I have as well as good memories, people and situations that I know of. From time to time I like to read self help books or listen to tapes, because they give me other, more productive, things to think about.

On a typical Friday night I am

Maybe about 70% of the time, I am home with my son, relaxing, cleaning house, doing something with him, or vegging on the computer. The other 30% of the time, I might get out, socialize, maybe drink, maybe not.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here

Spirituality means a lot to me. I have been a Christian and I have been a pagan (nature based religion). I'm not really sure where I stand with that right now; at the moment and just kind of disillusioned in this area. I guess you would say that I am truth seaker and can't accept much blindly anymore, not without examining all the evidence, and being at peace with all the aspects of a belief system. I hope that you can understand and respect that. I believe that spirituality is one thing that is very important to share in a relationship. I hope that whoever I end up with, we will find the right path together. It could mean that I am wasting my time by trying to find someone before I have resolved these issues. But we shall see. :)

You should message me if

I am looking for you if you are honest, brainy (even nerdy!), humorous, phycially attractive, gentle, spontaneous, have a steady job and are able to support yourself, have dreams and goals for the future, like doing things outdoors, like animals, like Renaissance Faire, consider yourself "deep", walk to the beat of a different drum, care about the plight of less fortunate people, like children. You don't have to be all of the above, but if you are at least a few of these, it would be good!

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