Where do I begin....

I am not a typical guy, let me repeat that, because it bears repeating... I am not a typical guy. I'm not here just to find *ahem* "Fuck Buddies", I am married, but I'll get into that later... moving on.....

It's hard to summarize myself without a long drawn-out and probably rambling array of words. I consider myself intelligent, but I do not flaunt it (that's annoying). I am a strong individual, both mentally and physically. I'm determined to better myself in life, both in my own mind and in the social world.

I'm Pagan, its easier just summarizing it that way than explaining all of my beliefs. It's not a huge part of my life, but people respecting and accepting my beliefs is important to me.

I'm married to a very wonderful girl who is also on here insolentmynxi. We're pretty open in our relationship (Polyamourous), but we respect each other too much to do anything without talking about it first.

I am Dominant, but only behind closed doors. I believe both sexes and all people should be equal out in the open.

I guess the rest is up for discussion if its not listed somewhere else on this page.

I work for a tier 2 Automotive supplier, and I'm a firefighter. I like the 2nd a lot better and want to transfer my skills into a Firefighting/EMT career.

I also enjoy doing almost anything outdoors, staying in shape, woodworking, making my own BDSM toys (I'm good at it and occasionally sell them http://darkartdesigns.wetpaint.com ). I like doing anything that allows me to be creative.

Almost anything I put my mind to. I've always picked up things quickly. I'm trying to learn Guitar, but having some issues. I'll eventually get better with it and not be so discouraged to pick it up and try harder.

I love to cook, and I'm working on getting better at making things on the fly instead of following recipes (with the help of my wife who is an expert at it).

My eyes. My personality has to overcome my average looks, but that usually comes a little later on. I wish I could make better first impressions.

I don't read books too much. I do read the news alot and try to keep up with current events and conversation items.

Movies... too many to list, I love comedies, action, and some horror. My favs would probably include Fear, Ninth Gate, Super Troopers, Police Academy 1-6, Lethal Weapon (all of them). Too many more to think of right now.

Music, again, soooo many I couldn't list them all. I like Hard Rock, Metal, Alternative, and Techno mostly. I do listen to Classics, Jazz and some older Rap. I don't like Country for the most part, or much newer Hip-Hop/R&B. Fav artists would be, Disturbed, NIN, Korn, Darude, Zeromancer, Papa Roach, Atreyu, I can listen to about any song by those groups, I have alot of others I like also, my computer and MP3 player are just full of diverse music.

Food, a little bit of everything. I do LOVE oriental food though, probably my favorite.

Freedom, in all forms
Friendship
My Wife (she keeps me balanced and sane at times)
Music

I'm sure there are 2 others, but I'll just toss those choices to someone else to use, lol.

Things I don't need to worry about. My mind likes to drift to the worst case scenario, which sucks a lot, but I'm getting better at pulling it back.
I'm very creative, so I'm always pondering things to make, and ways to make things better.

At home, watching TV, playing with my kitties, or doing something around the house. I like to go out and see local bands and play pool, but don't get the chance more than once a month or so.

I'm a sucker for Redheads... That can actually make up for a lot of other things for some odd reason. I love the look and the personality that most true redheads have.

Your interested in anything I've put down in my profile.
You want to get to know me better.
You have your own mind and don't have a problem using it (no "sheeple").
You don't want to just jump my bones (yes girls, there are guys who want more than just sex...).