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39 Portland, OR Woman


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:27pm
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Science / Engineering
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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I'm looking to spend time with someone I enjoy, someone that makes me feel that little extra unexplainable something that we all seem to be looking for.

I'm mostly balanced and reasonable, with a streak of impulsivity to keep things interesting. My health rivals enjoyment as my top priority in this living thing.

Here are some contradictions I might use to describe myself, if asked, which I guess I was, by OKC: Salty & sweet. Serious & frivolous. Intense & easy-going. Introverted & extroverted. Analytical & dreamy. Open & closed. Naughty & nice. But I guess you'd have to meet me to form your own opinion on the matter.

I've learned that intelligence is a huge turn on for me, but prefer not to put a label on that. Communication and presence work for me too.

I chose the designator bisexual, 'cause I fall for human beings. However, if forced to put myself on a spectrum, I am lady leaning.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Figuring it out as I go. Doing the best that I can. Gardening, cooking, reading fiction/literature/poetry, riding my bike about town, dancing to live music, hiking around with my dog, laughing with friends, going on swimming hole adventures, camping.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not taking myself too seriously. Trying new things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile, which I've deduced from all the smiles I get back.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love books, movies, music, and food. But only the good ones. If you love good books, movies, music and food we should get along great.

Most recent movie watched: Mud

Just started reading: Station Eleven by Emily St. John Mandel

Most recent show: Loch Lomond at Mulligans, so pretty!

Music listening to: Kurt Vile

Podcast listening to: Strangers

Food: tacos, Thai, sushi, pizza, my mom's red velvet cake, I'm a Cookie Monster!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Swimming in natural bodies of water.
2. My morning coffee.
3. Riding my bike.
4. Sunrises.
5. Literature.
6. My dog.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to best live life. Words. Stories. Sex. Love. Science. Landscape. The present. Time. People and their behavior and motivations.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hmm, good question. In my experience, life hasn't proven to be so typical...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm divorced.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You aren't already in a committed relationship with someone else. That'd be a good place to start.

A two person book club sounds like your idea of a good time.

You are playful and silly, even a little bit ridiculous. If you can make me laugh, I promise to deliver the best giggle!

You'd like a new friend, my social circle could use some expanding!