seriously though openness, honesty, communication, compassion, fun, health, play, affection, connection, and kindness; follow St Francis..be of service, give .try to live a decent life, get out & see things, go places I've never been.. try & be out there and make it an adventure, like most things at least get out & try some things & have a story to tell.
I notice that OKCupid helps match people with enemies too. This is intriguing to me. I've never really had a serious enemy, but if you sense there could be some spark of animosity between us, drop me a line! I'm open to either a committed vendetta or a casual feud.