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49 M Kent, WA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 22
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it matters a lot
Graduated from two-year college
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Has kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), C++ (Poorly)

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My self-summary
************* UPDATE 12/2013 ***********************
I am in a lifetime poly relationship with the sweet, adorably cute, kind and passionate enucky. I could not have found a better partner even if i tried... and i have!. I have been madly in love with her for 5 years and expect at least another 5 to 35 years :)

While the rest of the profile is mostly still accurate, i am not really interested in much other than friendship and occasional play. My dance card is pretty full with even with just one partner.

We have always been polyamorous, but have recently decided to pursue serious relationships instead of casual partners. I'm still open to casual, but that's not my focus. So let's be friends and build a foundation built on honesty, communication and trust :)

I recently and finally accepted that my sexuality should reflect my personality. I am a Pisces. We are one of the "dual signs", in that we are two polar opposites at the same time. So why should it be that I am ONLY Dominant and Sadistic in my sexual relationships?

I created some balance and resolution to this by being extremely nice and loving as well as very kinky and naughty. What i'm finding out is that being loving is a compliment to my Dominant side, not the opposite. The opposite of Dominant would be submissive. The opposite of being a Sadist would to be a masochist. The opposite of being sucked would be sucking. The opposite of fucking would be being fucked. The opposite of sex with a girl would be sex with a boy.

Note: I tend to browse/stalk profiles a lot. I don't mean kinda, but a lot (especially if I am using the phone app). So please do not be confused or offended if I have looked at your profile 10 times a week day for a week straight. Consider it a sign of flattery because I could be looking at somebody else's profile! *grin*. Why? You are probably rather intriguing on some level, clever screen name, compelling photographs or an otherwise unique profile... maybe you are just a hottie *wink*. In any event, I am a voyeur not a creeper. If you are kinda interested please message me, I will likely get around to it, but why wait?
What I’m doing with my life
I am...
(*) I am polyamorous and pagan.
(*) I have a sweet and adoring girlfriend.
(*) I have a 6yo daughter with Autism.
(*) I fix computers.
(*) I ride motorcycles.
(*) I race Crackerbox Pro sprint boats.
(*) I have another profile on Fetlife, tell me your screen name and i'll share mine :)

I occasionally race Crackerbox Pro sprint boats with my dad in arizona, OMFG those things are a wild ride! Top speeds of about 100mph.

We recently joined CSPC. I am really enjoying branching out and expanding my sexual perspective and landscape. Its kind of like entering The Matrix. Everything I thought I knew was merely an illusion.
I’m really good at
I am really good at kissing... :)
The first things people usually notice about me
If i am wearing 501's... my ass.
If i am not wearing them... my legs :),
The Ninja between my legs...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite Music:
Rob Dickinson, Catherine Wheel, Del Amitri, The Stills, Guster, The Posies, Elvis Costello, Depeche Mode, VNV Nation, Peter Gabriel, New Order, Joy Division, The Cure, Bauhaus, Alphaville, Silversun Pickups, Death Cab for Cutie, Broken Bells, Airborne Toxic Event, Interpol, The Smiths, Muse, Sarah MacLachlan, Dido, Nina Gordon, Kristen Hirsch, Tonya Donelly, Gotye, Broken Bells, Ultravox, Robyn Hitchcock, Billy Bragg, Jonathan Richman, Violent Femmes, The Cars, R.E.M., Sky Cries Mary

Favorite Directors/Studios/Actors: Tim> Burton, Quentin Tarantino, Hayao Miyazaki, Pixxar (most stuff), Monte Python, Steven Spielberg (except ET), John Cusak, Jack Black
Sex: The Secretary, Sex, Lies and Video Tape, The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Last Tango in Paris (NC-17), Breakfast at Tiffany's
Cult ClassicsHarold and Maude, The Princess Bride, American Werewolf in London, Young Frankenstein, Dr. Strangelove, Death Race 2000, Clash of the Titans, Clash of the Titans, Terminator
MusicalsMoulin Rouge, Rocky Horror, Bugsy Malone, Quadraphenia, Labyrinth, Sweeny Todd
Things that make you think: Usual Suspects, The Matrix, Donnie Darko, Memento, Alien, Blade Runner, 2001: A Space Odyssey, Dark City
Horror:Poltergheist, Amityville Horror, Blair Witch Project, Hell Raiser, Rose Red, The Shining
Other:Madison: The Movie, 300

Favorite Foods:
Thai Curry, Sushi, Indian Curry, Mexican, Pizza,
Not a foodie, but i like food :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Pubic hair: I was with a person the other day for the first time who KNEW a big part of why we were getting together was for oral sex. What did i find...? Let's just say that Bruce Springsteen's Jungleland started playing in my head.

I can understand (especially in women) a "whatever, he needs to want me for whomever, whatever and however i am or he doesn't really want me" philosophy, but.... there is a difference between licking hairy armpits, hairy legs and hairy genitals.

The same goes for guys too, real men manscape! If you want somebody to put their junk in your mouth for YOUR pleasure, guess what, make it pleasurable for them and check out some simple hygiene!

Okay, rant over :)

I was just shocked that in this 21st enlightened Seattle century that there are still people who haven't trimmed or shaved their pubes since 1983. We abolished coffee in a Styrofoam cup, can we trim those pubes people? :)
On a typical Friday night I am
With my girlfriend and/or daughter.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Last summer i had a heart BRANDED on my right shoulder (pictures included). It was part of a BDSM event (see below). This was my first time for this sort of thing. The blow torch kind of freaked me out a little. She drew a heart on my shoulder with a needed one dot at a time with the red hot needle. It was pretty intense, but very cool at the same time.

Same event last summer, my partner and I attended a BDSM tasting event at the CSPC and as a bottom I tried a wide variety of things (wax, caning, flogging, single tail whips, branding, needles, cupping, bastinado, knives, claws and more!).

So if you are kinky (a lot, a little or just curious) message me.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 27–48
  • Near me
  • For short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You should message me if
- you love to be kissed passionately.
- you enjoy massage.
- you want to share Magick.
- you need your computer fixed.
- you live near kent or seattle (not a requirement but it helps!)
- Pick and choose. Mix and match!
- You are GGG (I am not referring to your bra size, but if you are a GGG, you should DEFINITELY message me!)

REFERENCES: Excellent references available upon request :-)

For additional information please take at my other profile