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26 M Oulu, Finland

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 21–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Oct 22
Hispanic / Latin, White
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Catalan (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Finnish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I hail from the sunny valleys of the Iberian Peninsula but never stayed in one place for long since I was born.

I'm loyal, adventurous, independent and curious. I like learning stuff and I'm always willing to try new things... or so they tell me. (most people just say I'm crazy) I am Politically incorrect, free-spirited, a relationship anarchist and have a wide and wild sense of humour that some times gets me in trouble with those who don't know me... but I don't care... usually those who get pissed I didn't like to begin with.

Dr.Seuss once said: "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." I think that describes my overall approach to life.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Surviving everything it throws at me so far...

After roaming around €urope (mainly in my home country and Finland but other places too) since I was 16 and not being able or willing to settle down anywhere I went to many places and met lots of different people, been in dozens of different jobs, gone through a lot of difficult experiences and in the end got tired. So now I take it easy doing whatever feels right at the time in the lovely place I ended up, Oulu, looking back and seeing how much I've grown.

I am in a quest to find my Place in the world. Thou now I think that place is constantly changing as I am changing myself.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Everything I do. Well, everything I can think of at the moment. I suck at some things; like drawing... but I simply don't do those.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm there! ....I guess... they don't usually point out anything special. Not to me anyway.

Physically I suppose my long hair and pitch black beard stick out...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
OK... let's take some time to fill this up.

-Any and all by Carlos Ruiz Zafón and Laura Gallego.
-How to marry a finnish girl
- Most "for dummies" books I've read
Star Wars (both trilogies), The Terminator & Terminator 2, Conan the Barbarian, Batman Begins/Dark Knight/Dark Knight Rises, The Illusionist, The Lion King, The Prestige, The Matrix, Amelie, Nightmare before Christmas, Phone Booth... and thats all I get from the top of my head (Really the list could go on forever).

Shows: As in TV shows? I don't really watch TV.

I usually enjoy books and movies with an intricate plot. The more simultaneous plot lines and the thicker the better. Having deep characters with unique personalities to explore is also good.
Summarising I like movies that make me think and try to guess what's going to happen next. Movies that make me laugh and also action movies (if they put on a good martial arts show the better) when the mood strikes me.

In Flames, Children of Bodom, The 69 Eyes, Rammstein, SOAD, Reno Renardo, Anathema, Slipknot, Dragonforce, Mike Oldfield, Hans Zimer, Nobuo Uematsu, Queen, Michael Jackson, Maximum the Hormone, Shiro Sagisu, Amon Amarth, John Williams, Frank Klepacki, Jack Wall, Jeremy Soule, Dragonslayer... Yeah I have a weird and varied music taste I could be filling this list forever

Mostly Italian and my own recipes I've been developing over the years (they aren't fancy stuff, more practical than anything but hey! Tasty!) I also love to try things I have not eaten before. (as long as they are actual food an not some live insects or that kind of thing)

BONUS! Games:
Gears of War series, Mass Effect Series, KOTOR and TOR, Command and Conquer Generals, Fallout series... really... anything that's not a main stream sport like football or basketball videogames... they're lame I prefer to play the sport itself. Like movies I prefer games that make me think and figure out the outcome, but offcourse blowing up things is also fun some times. I used to love fighting games, Tekken 3 was the reason I started practicing Taekwondo, but I've owned an XBox 360 as my sole gaming platform for the last 3 years, and let's be honest. The controller is great for playing FPS but for fighting games IT SUCKS.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Air, water, sleep, gravity, food and shelter. (Seriously what I'm I supposed to write here?)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I'm a thoughtful guy
I spend a lot of time thinking about a lot of things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't know. Is there somewhere specific I should be?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I talk to my pets as if they where people.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you got to the bottom of this profile You are either interested or bored out of your mind. Say "hi", I don't bite... well rarely... :P