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54 M Honolulu, HI

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:46am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Hawaiian (Okay), Korean (Poorly), Chinese

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My self-summary
Perhaps I should start by telling you what I am not, and not what I think I am. I'm hardly a genius, Bill Gates rich, or totally ripped- but I'm hardly dumb, broke, or out of shape either, lol. I am however a loyal, funny, honest, communicative, and agreeable guy who has a good head on his shoulders and heart in his chest. Outgoing, personable, and quite allot of fun. I have compassion for others, a solid set of values and unwavering morals. I am comfortable with who I am and surround myself with others who are as well.

I love the gym, the warm water, watching the sunset and hiking - anything outdoors. And I always look forward to quality time with really good company, real, and funny conversations.

I've learned to be careful of physical looks, as they can deceive. Not to be envious of wealth, as money comes and goes. Never judge anyone by their age or race, as that only reveals someones own issues. To be friends with people who make me think, laugh, and smile, because life has too many good people in it to let the few grouchy ones ruin it.
What I’m doing with my life
I've always worked for myself, created my own success (and failures) and believe in my own abilities.
I’m really good at
Believing that life can be magic. That it only takes a minute to connect with someone, an hour to like them, and half a day to fall madly in love. It's all about the honest chemistry.
The first things people usually notice about me
I've always taken very good care of myself; physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

Oh, and my bald shinny head, lol :).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Passionate Marriage. The Art of The Question. The Developing Mind. ESO. Guns, Germs, and Steel. The Female Brain. Mastery. How Children Learn. The 48 Laws Of Power.
The six things I could never do without
Petting animals
Mental Stimulation
Hearing a child's voice
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I've always wondered; if a transvestite happened to go missing, would you put their picture on a carton of half and half?
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm embarrassed to say but not very much.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I can have a bit of a non-vanilla side with the right person, chemistry, and communication.

Oh, and that I have very accurate Cradar. You've been forewarned.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 38–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You wanna rock the world, but not the boat.

You are are looking for a mature, drama free, and fun guy to be friends with, or see if there's a romantic spark.

And, in case you're wondering, the adorable little girls in the photo's are my friends nieces, not mine. I wish!