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41 Santa Clara, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 6
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Atheism and laughing about it
Working on University
Wants kids
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a bay area native with a positive, driven, accountable outlook on life. I'm pursuing a second career in healthcare so I'm back in college as a student... here's the twist.. I'm also a college instructor and I work in the ER.

My hobbies include going to the gym/Crossfit, social/partner dancing (Blues & WCS mostly), motorcycle riding, experiencing culture (restaurants, art galleries, live shows, etc...), and socializing with friends.

I live a life of accountability, integrity, and compassion. If this sort of mindset resonates with you, then we're off to a great start.

I don't want/need to rush into anything but I'm clear about being in a long term relationship and having children. I'm looking for a partner who is equally clear. I'm big on courting & romance but I am done with "just dating."

The Venn diagram of my life is an impressive array of colors & shapes.

Random facts:
I'm a fan of the Oxford comma.
I read the news daily.
Music is an important part of my life.
I can be a big dork sometimes.
I know how to use a flogger.
Politically speaking, I’m a passionate Moderate.
I'm a serious handy-man type. I can fix damn near anything. (computers, sinks, cars, fences, etc..)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
... nursing school (Graduate in Spring '15! Afterwards, I'll continue to work in the ER and on a LifeFlight helicopter.)
... Enjoying Life..
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Partner Dancing, Riding Motorcycles, Helping people, Emergency situations, exercising, eating clean, and teaching others
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm friendly and outgoing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love Jazz & Blues. I also enjoy electronic music such as house, deep house. I listen to classical music too, baroque is a favorite.

Movies: Anything with a really well written story. (Which usually means it was a book first.) It also needs to have good actors, not just someone famous.

Shows: Most stage productions that tell a story. Opera can be hard to follow sometimes, though.

Food: Yes, please. I love discovering new places.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Dancing
2. Motorcycles
3. Exercising
4. A Goal/something to work towards
5. Love (self & others)
6. Good food/drink
7. Breaking rules
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future.. and the present.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
School work, Hitting the gym if I didn't go in the morning, and then either going home to prepare for Saturday festivities, going out with friends, dancing, or maybe a quiet night in.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Oh.. Jeez.. I'm pretty open, so this would end of being a long list of ridiculous mistakes and exploits. :-) Really want to know? Write and ask.. It'll make for some good laughs.
You should message me if
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You like bad jokes & witty puns.
You're clear on what you want and brave enough to reach for it.