Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


34 Brooklyn, NY Man


Similar users

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–47
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:08am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Graduated from masters program
Wants kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), French (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Heading back to New York City next week to resume real life, but in the meantime taking a quick trip up to Dublin this weekend, the 7-10th of August. I don't know a soul there, so if you have an inclination, invite me out!

Back in Paris for a bit...

New Yorker, teacher, bartender and writer, traveling in a big van that goes real slow. In Spain right now, A Coruña, headed south over the next month.

update months later from Morocco: Turning around. Heading back north.

And now: In a chambre de bonne by a canal.

Haven't been on this in a while, been back in NYC for the last few months...

And now I've moved to Philadelphia. Being a teacher for the semester, not looking for anything serious though the looking never seems to correspond to the finding...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Traveling, writing, reading, finding contentment in solitude, taking pictures, listening to new music, rolling my rrrrrrs.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Chopping garlic, listening.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Crooked teeth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Many, right now Caetano Veloso, Serengeti, Tone Tank, The National, Smog, Nina Simone, I Love You Airlines.
Don Quijote, East of Eden. The Wire.
I've worked in restaurants too long to think of food beyond the experience and the necessity, so, cheap if it can be, otherwise, well accompanied.
Edit: While mostly true, the above makes it sound like I don't care about food, which isn't true. So, a list: Soup dumplings, Mexican food, perfect potatoes, oysters, cucumbers.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Being color-blind and the texture of the wall, but mostly because I'm still staring at it after all these hours, and why my eyelid twitches and could I see it in the mirror if I get there fast enough.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In my van somewhere remote.

That's not true anymore. I have no idea now though, so I'm leaving it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't understand the vagaries of my emotions.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Adventure! Also, if you like to cut hair. Or know how to.