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50 Austin, TX Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
OK, I guess I ought to review my profile every now and then.

I've decided I'm not great at writing a profile. Considering having a friend write one for me.

I've met some great people on here, but obviously still looking. I've been through some major life experiences and know who I am, what I will and will not accept, and am very comfortable with who I am. I really am enjoying life and all it has to offer. I am a HS band director (as well as Middle and Intermediate school) and have been teaching for 14 years. I've completed my Principal certification, and am exploring the next phase of my career.

I enjoy good food, wine, beaches and water of any kind, being outside in the sun. Live music, recorded music, music in my head (yes, there's lots of that!) being crazy sometimes, spontaneous, yet grounded, and love to laugh!

I would love to find someone to do anything and everything with. Explore food, wine tasting in the hill country, getaways to the coast or some exotic land. Music, theatre, movies, you name it. It's always better with someone. Yes, I'm a hope(ful) romantic. Love romance. May sound "mushy" but that's who I am. You like flowers, I'm you're guy. Want me to fix your car, uh, not gonna happen. Evening at the symphony, yep. A night in playing video games, nope.

I think I'm fairly intelligent, but definitely don't know much! I'm positive, outgoing, and happy probably 95% of the time.

TMI? Well, that's me in a nutshell. There's lots more to know.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a high school band director. I have been teaching for 14 years and playing trumpet for, well, a lot more than that! Just completed my principal certification and trying to decide what the next chapter is for me. Stay in education? School administration? Fine Arts administrator? Corporate trainer? Looking to expand my horizons.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Music. Once a musician, always a musician!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You tell me. Are we talking visual? Conversationally? Sense of humor? Intelligence? What does this REALLY mean?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books:Jonathan Livingston Seagull; Drive; A Whole New Mind; Movies: Brigadoon; The Thin Man series; Star Trek (the new one!); The Maltese Falcon
Music: almost any music, especially live; Elephant room for live jazz; SXSW;
Food: sushi, steaks, seafood, Mexican...hell I love food and will try almost anything (not spinach!)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My son
Friends and family
Great food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Being the best dad I can be.
What my next phase in life is.
The state of education in this country.
Beaches, vacations, traveling.
My purpose.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends, staying home with a bottle of wine, traveling with the band to football games.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am divorced with a fantastic 16 year old son, who lives with his mom in Brenham. I see him every other weekend, and sometimes more.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you got this far, enjoy wine, food, laughing A LOT, and think to yourself "what the hell, it's worth a shot!" (Oh, and have a great sense of humor.)