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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:12pm
Relationship Type
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
English, Spanish
My self-summary
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Are there any people in the Bay Area who are single and are looking for ONE person to be totally weird with exclusively? There are sooooo many people out here who seem so awesome with their sex and body positive vibes and open minded kinkiness and it's so cool until I realize that none of these people seem to be looking for one other weirdo. No judgement (I know it's sounds judgey, but really) it's just not where I'm at. And I'm not saying I wanna jump into a relationship right away, I just don't feel comfortable sleeping with people who are sleeping with people. Anyone? Bueller?

I wanna get weird with you. I'm tall and substantial, physically and otherwise. Artistic, sensitive, silly, and loving. I practice yoga and eat vegetables and chocolate. Not exclusively, and usually not together.
What I’m doing with my life
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I moved to the Bay Area from Chicago last fall without a job and now I'm sort of killing it. My full time gig is with an education non-profit that focuses on empowering girls. I also teach a yoga class every week and do very part time work with another non-profit that promotes body positivity and does eating disorder prevention work. All three of these things are extremely important to me and it kind of blows my mind that I'm getting paid to do all three! Woohoo!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My friend Rebecca asked me for help drafting a letter of condolence the other day. "You're good at this sort of thing," she said. Who knew?
"Some people have a way with words. Some people...not have way." - Steve Martin

I'm strong, so I'm good at opening jars and moving heavy objects for my friends. Don't worry, boys. I still need your help (she said, batting her eyelashes) Some of you will likely be disappointed to hear that no, I will not beat the shit out of you. Sorry.

I can be a bit of a social butterfly, so I'll say that I'm good at working a room.

I love to sing and I never play guitar often enough. Will you sing with me PLEASE? I dream of taking a lover who will stay up late with me and harmonize to Beatles songs with me all. night. long.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People: I love your hair! Do you get that a lot??
Me: Yes, thanks!

People: How tall are you???
Me: 6'1!
People: Wow!
Me: Yeah!

For the record, this sort of attention does not bother me. But then again...I like attention. 😳
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: History Of Love, The Hunger Games, Anna Karenina, Principles of Uncertainty, No One Belongs Here More Than You, The Girl in the Flammable Skirt (titular line!), The Metamorphosis

Movies: Waiting for Guffman, Best in Show, Spinal Tap, The Princess Bride, Amelie, Planes, Trains and Automobiles, Edward Scissorhands, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Fight Club, Pan's Labyrinth, Singin' in the Rain

Shows: The Mindy Project, The Wire, Breaking Bad, Parenthood, 30 Rock, Six Feet Under, Parks and Rec, Arrested Development, Dexter, My So Called Life.

Music: I like a lot of sad, moody music. Elliott Smith, Bon Iver, Fiona Apple, The National, Tracy Chapman...
Also not sad music: Stevie Wonder, James Taylor, Carole King, Ella Fitzgerald, Adele, The Cranberries, Hall and Oates, Regina Spektor, The Beatles, Bonnie Raitt, Stevie Nicks

Food: Vegetarian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Nature (water, trees, fresh air)
Loved ones
Something to work towards
A different perspective

That's all I got for now.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How we are all so different and so much the same, and how confusing that can be.

Body positivity and how anti-fat our society is. It's taken me 32 years, but I'm finally making some big revelations about how effed up it is how much time, energy, and money we spend to reach a very limited ideal of beauty. When you start to look for beauty everywhere, you find it. This shift in perception has changed my relationship with myself and with other people in profound ways. I love this topic and would love to discuss it with you!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating something, doing something, then going to bed.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm working on being more forgiving of myself. We're making progress.
You should message me if
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You're interesting, kind, thoughtful (as in, full of thoughts) attractive and funny. You're not afraid of feelings. Or maybe you are, but that doesn't keep you from feeling/thinking/talking about them. You're trying to be and do better. You're ready and looking for a partner that you can truly know and be yourself around. You want to share yourself, and be shared with.

Oh, and...if you don't somehow indicate in your message to me that you've really read my profile and jive with what I'm saying, I won't respond. Ain't nobody got time for that.