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31 F Dalton, MA

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Last Online
Today – 4:33am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish

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My self-summary
I'm tall and substantial, physically and otherwise. Artistic, sensitive, silly, and loving. I practice yoga (just took my first fly yoga class...OMG. So much fun!) and eat vegetables and chocolate. Not exclusively, and usually not together.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a 7th grade Special Ed teacher in a Chicago Public School. I spent my 20s as an actor, singer, writer, arts administrator, waitress, barista, figure model, assistant, after school teacher, early childhood music teacher, yoga instructor and temp, and now I'm in the middle of the second year of my first ever full time job. So! My life has changed quite a bit over the past year and a half. It's a huge challenge, but it's good. While I don't think the classroom is where I belong, I've come to realize that my strengths lie in relating to kids in a social/emotional context and I am contemplating my next move toward that end. I'm working really hard and I'm happy to finally be doing something important every day. Just trying to hone in on the right niche.
I’m really good at
My friend Rebecca asked me for help drafting a letter of condolence the other day. "You're good at this sort of thing," she said. Who knew?
"Some people have a way with words. Some people...not have way." - Steve Martin

I'm strong, so I'm good at opening jars and moving heavy objects for my friends. Don't worry, boys. I still need your help (she said, batting her eyelashes) Some of you will likely be disappointed to hear that no, I will not beat the shit out of you. Sorry.

I can be a bit of a social butterfly, so I'll say that I'm good at working a room.
The first things people usually notice about me
People: I love your hair! Do you get that a lot??
Me: Yes, thanks!

People: How tall are you???
Me: 6'1!
People: Wow!
Me: Yeah!

For the record, this sort of attention does not bother me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: History Of Love, The Hunger Games, Anna Karenina, Principles of Uncertainty, No One Belongs Here More Than You, The Girl in the Flammable Skirt (titular line!), The Metamorphosis

Movies: Waiting for Guffman, Best in Show, Spinal Tap, The Princess Bride, Amelie, Planes, Trains and Automobiles, Edward Scissorhands, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Fight Club, Pan's Labyrinth, Singin' in the Rain

Shows: The Wire, Breaking Bad, Parenthood, Six Feet Under, Parks and Rec, Arrested Development, Dexter, My So Called Life.

Music: I like a lot of sad, moody music. Elliott Smith, Bon Iver, Fiona Apple, The National, Tracy Chapman...
Also not sad music: Stevie Wonder, James Taylor, Carole King, Ella Fitzgerald, Adele, Hall and Oates, Regina Spektor, The Beatles

Food: I'm not big on meat (the kind you masticate and digest), but I'm not a forever vegetarian. (Currently, I am a vegetarian). You probably won't ever see me order a steak, but I may take a bit of yours and chew it for approximately 5 minutes with a confusing look on my face. I like to eat beans and veggies. I LOVE cheese and bread, but I try to limit my intake. I also have a sweet tooth. Or maybe a few. It's true. I haven't met a cuisine I didn't like.
The six things I could never do without
Nature (water, trees, fresh air)
Loved ones
Something to work towards
A different perspective

That's all I got for now.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to achieve balance in my life, and the many avenues through which it can be pursued.
How we are all so different and so much the same, and how confusing that can be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Eating something, doing something, then going to bed.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've developed a ritual of listening to This American Life/The Moth/Risk! on Saturday mornings while I clean my apartment, before tackling prep work for the following week. I love it. Don't tell anyone, it's private ;)
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–38
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're interesting, kind, thoughtful (as in, full of thoughts) attractive and funny. You're not afraid of feelings.