What I admire and respect is kindness and feedback.
I laugh hard and often at my own jokes and for some that might be confronting. On the other hand I am highly considerate and honest.
(Many times I've heard couples who last a long long time say that they were able to do it because they were 'able to stand" the other person.)
... I'm athletic and losing weight - lost 100 and 100 to go. I'm big but carry my weight very well.
I like golf, tennis (once I lose some weight) but have a great energy level for a 50 yo (and wear it well).
... I'm a self-taught web designer and have been working for myself since 1992.
... I'm honest about my height (5-8) and my photo is recent.
... I am funny (more like witty...think Alan Alda). For example at the market today the cashier asked if I wanted a fork for my salad bar take-out. I said only if you buy me flowers and chocolate. Well done.
- (true story) ... I wanted to startup a senior citizen dating website in the 90's... Carbon-Dating.com.
... I am not, nor have ever been, nor will ever...
- be a scammer, a cheater, am nuts, or request financial support
I will be 51 at the end of December.