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51 M Drexel Hill, PA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 38–60
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:41pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Has cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am looking for someone who can 'fill your gaps' (as Rocky said).

I share a very nice trait with women ... I grow more attracted to them the more time I spend with them ... in the end the wit, intelligence, support, etc. is going to win not just the day, but the years.

I am occasionally witty.
(True story #1) At the market the cashier asked if I wanted a fork (for my salad). I said only if you buy me flowers and chocolate first.

(True story #2) I wanted to startup a senior citizen dating website in the 90's...

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I am not a scammer, a cheater, am nuts, or request financial support. I drive... a nice, newer model car. My height is honest (5-8) and though two years old my photo is accurate (though I'm thinner now ... but thank goodness my teeth haven't lost any weight)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Reinventing...better tools and actions to match my vision and reality - having it all, health, money, family (feeling wanted and making someone feel wanted).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Doing the right thing
Being willing to change / Taking Coaching / Learning
Loving cats - I had three cats but only my darling big boy Hammerhead remains. He proves to me my capacity for love.
Sharing wonderful links... here's one...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Eyes, hair, face, smile, kindness, dowry
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Guide to Selfish Love (Ellen Kenner) and anything about Behavior Management, Relationships, Happiness.

Baggage Reclaim (relationship site)
PlentyofFish - the discussion forums are excellent... 17 pages of people discussing if friends first every really works. I think it's about 60/40 No/Yes ... I think it's the best way to go. What do you think?
TED (talks...about behavior change)

Shawshank, Cabaret, Cinema Paradiso, Amelie, 2001 a space Odyssey… My favorite movie, It's romance not science-fiction.

West Wing, DeadWood, (first three seasons of) MadMen, BreakingBad, old Hollywood Squares (Paul Lynde, genius), Barney Miller, Alfred Hitchcock Presents (c. 1955) (Alfred being what's worth watching at the beginning and ending)

Light classical, Byran Ferry/Roxy Music, Samuel Barber, the 80's, Boards of Canada, St. Vincent, techno-ambient, Beatles/McCartney, Washed Out, and anything melodic by Rush for working out.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Human touch, cats, 8 hrs. sleep, Fall, bacon, massages, the feeling of belonging, al dente kissing, hot showers on cold and dark days (and candles if we match), naps, work, running… And dare say it, broccoli. My least favorite vegetable has now finally become my favorite. That's some effective behavioral change right there.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Staying focused on my weight loss goal - down 75 lbs. (doing about 1200 cal a day and walking 5, 6 or 7 miles a day). fantastic!
... finding better, more satisfying ways, to reach goals, helping care for my mother. Building the skills of meaningful relationships.
The psychology of skill building. Don't get me started on feedback loops, cognitive dissonance, and everything else involved with demystifying what really it is to be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working or working out...I don't have a set day off.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I often feel entitled and I feel liberated knowing it because I can turn it off when I see it. Men aren't entitled to sex (for example).

I'm not a tattoo fan or of idyllic philosophies.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- Pursuing happiness is important. Happier people don't steal kill, start wars etc.
- You understand the value of an individual practicing religion despite having complaints about organized religion.
- In your first message you can say more than "hi there" or "nice smile".