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Flemzy

33 / M / gay / Single

Leiden, Netherlands

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.74m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Clerical / Administrative
Income
Kids
Dislikes children
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Dutch (Fluently), Arabic (Okay), French (Okay), German (Poorly)

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I am rare, evolving, and gullable.

My Self-Summary

Sweet guy who's only really started "really" living at the age of 18 (so in a fact I've just turned eleven years 'old) but has ever since lived life to the fullest (well.. at least I tried to!). Fled my West-Flemish hometown at 18 and have travelled/lived to/in different amazing cities (Cairo, Bayrouth, Addis Abeba, Ghent, Damascus). At the moment finalizing my masters in Arabic Language&Culture at Leiden University busy busy busy...

Have an intense craving for non-western cultures, especially muslim and/or african cultures, so if I ever go on holiday it won't be to Mykonos, Sitges and what have you...!? Gayculture is not a culture, it's a hype!!

Next to honesty and trust I highly value monogamy, a treat which is on the verge of extinction in the gay-community, apparently....

Emotions' wise I'm a rollercoaster, with extreme highs and lows... Highly recommended to flatliners..

Ohw, check out my dearest friend Bapcrunch, who lured me into OkCupid... he's a bastard really, but an adorable one, a cuddly bear really!
Now in Arabic
waladtu fî Bilgîkâ wa lammâ kuntu tisa'tâshar sana taraktu 'ilâ Hûlandâ. Ta'allamtu 'l-lughat-a 'l-'arabiyya fî-'l-gâmi'at Leiden, wa 'anâ mutaxassis 'an-i 'l-Islâm fî Ifrîqîyâ. Sikintu tis'at shuhûr fî-'l-Qâhira, wa kân helwâ 'awi hinâk. 'al-ân sâkin fî Leiden wa 'andî sughl fî-'l gâmi'at Leiden. Insha'llah harûh 'ilâ 'ash-Sharq 'il-Awsat fî 'l-mustaqbal.

Kam qara'tahu, 'ana nasi'tu kathîr min-a 'l-lughat-i 'l-'arabiyya. Li-'l-Asaf!

What I’m doing with my life

Still trying to figure that one out ... me think I'm going for "sainthood"

I’m really good at

Listening to people, even if it's utterly boring...

Writing, or so people keep telling me

The first things people usually notice about me

Wondering which country I'm actually from ... (probably thanks to the big nose, the dark complexion, the long hair)

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Authors: Robert Fisk, Alan Hollinghurst & Hanan ash-Shaykh Books: literature about Africa, esp. Sudan, Ethiopia, Somalia. Movies: "The Doom Generation", Barbarella Queen of the Galaxy (1968) and other B-movies, also Science Fiction crazy, and everything from Francois Ozon & Pedro Almodovar

Music: Rock -> Belgian groups like dEUS, Zita Swoon, SoulWax, Millionaire, Admiral Freebee, and other: Nick Cave, Iggy pop, RHC Peppers, Beck, etc ... Elektro -> Vive La Fete, Mirwais, Miss Kittin, Peaches, etc... and oldies like The Zombies, Breeders, Kinks, Nina Simone, etc...

and ofcourse the magnificent Jacques Brel and Dalida!!

Foods: if it's Hot&Spicy I like it!! Fish and mushrooms make me vom

The six things I could never do without

Cigarettes (for now at least) Chocolate (Hey, I'm Belgian ... giving up chocolate equals treason where I come from...) Music Books Friends Cats

I spend a lot of time thinking about

the apocalyps ... or is that wishful thinking??

On a typical Friday night I am

wondering what the hell I'm still doing in The Ned...

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

it's very large, requires high maintenance, likes it when you rub it with care (no pinching goddammit!) and I'm thinking about piercing it... my BIG nose

You should message me if

you've already got hair on your chest ... even if it's only just one...