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68 M San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Straight women only
  • Ages 50–70
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 8:17pm
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Russian (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I seek a woman who is smart, tall, slender, and local to San Francisco; who would enjoy sailing on the bay during afternoons with good weather and attending ballroom dance instruction during evenings.

I am 6'5" tall, weigh 225 lbs, reasonably fit, college educated with advanced degrees from USAFI, fluent in three languages, ex-military, widower, live in The City, and do not entertain any abuse beyond a Stoli martini.

My photographs are recent and I appear the same in life. I look younger when I smile and older when I wear glasses to read.

I have served my family on the farm, my country as a soldier, my community as a policeman, my fellow man as an engineer and psychologist. Now, I am retired and serving myself.

The remainder you might learn over coffee or drinks.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
The OKC staff has asked me, and many other people, to act as moderators. We submit our written opinions as to whether or not user names, narratives, photos, etc., are appropriate for this site.

It occurred to me, that deleting inappropriate material from many profiles made those objectionable or vile people appear to be good and safe dates. So, I stopped moderating.

All of you must be, and must remain, aware that well meaning moderators have cleaned the profiles of unacceptable people making them appear to be desirable as boyfriends and girlfriends.

So, here are some clues to the persons boyfriend or girlfriend abilities

If people do not make an effort to do the relatively easy and simple thing of presenting good first and second images, then they will not make an effort to do the relatively difficult and complex thing of being a good boyfriend or girlfriend

The first image must be a clear; not concealed by glasses, hat, or scarf; head and shoulders portrait, that shows all of their face. The second image must be a clear and clothed, but not concealed, head to feet photo that shows the figure and poise.

People who refuse to do this will refuse to be good boyfriends or girlfriends. They will always insist on having their way instead of acting the right way.

Use my first and second images as guides.

There is much more, but the gist of it is self management. If one person tries to manage the other, then that is dominants and dominants destroys love, friendship, and passion. Managing yourself creates love, friendship, and passion.

Do not ask me for more information on this topic. I am retired from all psych efforts. Good luck to all of you.