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I just might be the most random OCD girl there is. If I could spend my last hour on this earth doing anything, it would be horse back riding because it feels like flying. I plan everything I can, but I love surprises even if they are the bad kind... I think it just makes the good ones so much better. I don't like things most people do and I do like things that most people don't. I don't care for ice cream, I love brussel sprouts. The first thing I notice on a guy is his arms... I think it's a feeling safe kind of thing. I have a list of things to do before I die. I like things in color order. I like the smell of the river in the morning and I'll take it even if it means no bathroom and touching the side of the tent covered in dew in the morning. I know there is more to attraction than looks (but it is a factor) and someone can't force attraction and it is one of the most important things in a relationship. I have been in a few relationships and now I know more than ever what really matters and I know exactly what I want. I have never cheated on anyone and I am one of the 7% that no matter what happened, under no circumstances could I ever even think about it. I see the glass as it is, if you pour something in it... it's half full, if you pour something out... it's half empty. I HATE getting the hiccups. I'll like someone until they give me a reason to think they don't like me. I crave consistency. I don't have the patience to read a book. I used to believe there were sharks in the bathtub... and still kind of do. Valentines Day is my favorite. My biggest fear is that I will go blind. I like hugs more than kisses... I think they mean more. I miss people more when I am with them or have just been with them. I honestly believe I am not like anyone else. I believe that most people are good at heart. It terrifies me when people yell or are too stern with me. I get way into movies. Watches and bracelets make me feel claustrophobic. I still don't know what I want to be career wise. I am allergic to most types of metals. I love Mexican food. The average person has 7 thoughts going through their head at one time... I have at least 20 and a lot of the time they get mixed up. I don't have a specific religion, but I believe there is a greater being, I just think you can have more faith if you don't have guidelines on what you should and shouldn't believe. Writing is my release. I love to do things until i have to do them... it kind of takes the fun out of them. I honestly want to make the world a better place. I can't jump rope. Music is one of my passions. My family is very important to me. I think Dane Cook is hilarious. I love random facts and I spout them out sporadically. My favorite color is red, but I want everything in black. My favorite flower is daphne adora. My favorite animal is an otter. I over use lol, when I can’t think of what else to say. Sometimes I text without thinking…I think I may also text in my sleep. My worst habit is biting my nails. I love the game clue… I cheat at the game life (I have the card I want folded in the corner so never play at my house). I am not a sporty girl, I am a bowling, shooting pool, hanging out with friends, kind of girl. I dye my hair for pick me ups. I love the weather! I love it when it rains, when it snows and when it’s sunny. I love swimming…. In lakes and rivers… not pools. I am a cautious person. I’m superstitious about some things. If I could have any super power in the world it would be to grant wishes. I consider myself driven, goal oriented and a multitaskeraholic. I love more than anything to laugh, life's too short to be unhappy.

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I am not sure what that means... my cat typed it... I figured it's only right to let her have some input.

Changing the world one smile at a time. Checking things off of my list of things to do before I die and then adding more. Planning everything I can just to be able to throw my plan out the window (that's the fun part). Attempting the impossible. Attempting to quench my insatiable thirst for random knowledge. Being awesome. contemplating the meaning and connection of it all.

For the sake of the guy who is reading this section to see "if I fit into his life plan"... I have a great job with plenty of room to advance, I have a good head on my shoulders, I budget my money and work hard for everything I have, I want something, I go after it, I don't just sit there and whine about how I want it, at this point in my life I don't see myself having kids, but who knows if I meet the right person (adoption is probably more likely being as that there are so many kids in the world that don't have parents... it kind of seems selfish to have one just because you want it to look like you), but it's definitely not in the near future, I have a lot I want to do first.

Learning, I am a quick learner... so then I can pretty much pull off anything I have a desire to learn. Organizing (it's lame I know... the weird super powers that God gives us...). Making people laugh... I will pretty much do whatever it takes to do so. Listening, giving advice, meddling, mediating, problem solving... call it what you will. Masterminding schemes. Thinking up new things to occupy time.

Probably that I am short... it's funny how people don't think before they talk sometime. When meeting new people I usually get a "wow, you're short" (it's a good thing I don't get offended) I usually follow up with a "you, should see me with out my shoes". Every once in a while, one of my friends spouts out the "wow, you're short" like they are noticing it for the first time... probably next would be my smile.... I smile a lot.... but not in a creepy awkward way... that would be creepy and awkward. The third would depend on the situation... for example I am bowling... they might notice that i have fun being really bad at things. Or if I am in a bar then they might notice that I seem to be the only non-pregnant chick that is drinking water. Or maybe they might notice that I over use the words awesome and lame.

My cat/dog/truck (it's a package deal so it only counts as one)
My family
Bad grammar (run on sentences & overuse of ellipses)
Any of my appendages (feet, legs, arms, hands - I really rely on them too much)
A camera
Music

Anything and Everything! I am a wonderer...or would it be a wonderess... since I am a girl? hmm... anyway... I think about everything all the time, what does it mean, where does it come from, how does it affect me, if i did that what would happen...

Typical Friday night... HA! never a typical Friday night in my world. Most of the time I hang out with my friends... which friends and what we do differs a lot... at some point you will probably find me at Taco Bell though... I'll explain that one sometime.

Well, if I post it on the internet then it's not very private and then it kind of loses its shininess... ummm... lets see... if my friends want to go to the bar, I usually order something non-alcoholic that still looks like an alcoholic drink like a Shirley Temple... that way my friends don't hound me about not drinking and I get to remember everything they say.

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I would like to make friends above all (so you can message me if you think we would be good friends)- but being as that most people are here for relationships below is what I would be looking for...
I want a guy who makes me smile with a thought, someone who knows when I am scared and doesn't make fun of me for it, someone who knows I can take care of myself, but he does it because he can and he wants to, I want someone who holds my hand, someone who may or may not be good at something but does it because it makes me happy, someone who can sleep next to me even if I snore or put my cold feet on him, I want someone who appreciates that I make him breakfast or fold his clothes or put notes in his lunch box. someone who will help me make the bed. someone who isn't afraid to ask for help. someone who likes to talk and listen and lighten the mood with a joke. someone who knows that life is too short to be unhappy and that you need to make the most of it.

The last thing I want to do is waste anyone's time, so here are some specifics on what I am not looking for. I love kids, but I am not really at that point in my life right now, so I would consider kid(s) to be a downside, not a deal breaker but a pretty big con. I am NOT that kind of girl , so if that's what you are looking for please move on. I will not reply to any messages that refer to me as baby or sexy... those are not acceptable first contact pet names. I am not looking for someone who does drugs or is a heave drinker. smoking is a con, but if you are willing to quit I'd be glad to help. I need someone who is planning on getting somewhere in life, I have goals and ambition and I need to be with someone that I can support and they can support me. If you have communication problems and you don't want to improve, please don't bother. If you are a cheater or a liar, please don't bother. I need a real man.This isn't a deal breaker, but I would just like to get it out there, I know a lot of guys are very active and consider working out a hobby. I stay healthy, but I don't consider working out fun. I messed up my knee riding or well crashing on a quad and it does give me some trouble with overuse, so I don't run or jog or hike (more than 3 mi.). I don't go to the gym. I just want you to know that because I know for some it would cause compatibility issues and it is a deal breaker for them.

Woos are lame so... if you want to talk to me... then just message me...
I know getting up the nerve to message someone or thinking up what to say is difficult... so please unless anything said above cancels you out, just try. What's the worst that could happen? The worst is you could not be "the one" (which is what I am looking for). If you think about it you have a better chance of winning the lottery or getting struck by lightening than being "the one". Don't worry about the subject line, I will read it either way, I promise and I always do what I say I will. Content is all that really matters, so for that, please avoid the one liners. Tell me about yourself, something your profile doesn't say. Say why I caught your eye, what you do for a living, some goals, fears, favorites. So, take a chance.