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51 M Park Ridge, IL

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 40–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:41pm
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'd like to meet a woman whom I find attractive and who shares with me some similar guiding principles, such as the importance of feeling just as much as thinking, and who is introspective and curious about what makes them tick, whether they've done it on their own or with the help of a therapist. Lastly, I'd like to meet a woman who experiences the world and its complexities as a bunch of gray instead of black and white. I'm very affectionate, yes including PDA, and I know that's not everyone's bag, so I hope the woman I fall in love with will be too... :-)
What I’m doing with my life
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I enjoy taking ridiculously long walks through our wonderful city and exploring its great neighborhood bars, restaurants and coffee shops. I'm a big music geek and fan and love going to see live bands in small venues, as well as Karaoke.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I think I communicate very well...with a little help from my time "on the couch" I've learned how to be very closely in touch with my feelings and be able to communicate those feelings with other people. I think this is essential in order to have a strong, trusting, loving relationship.
The first things people usually notice about me
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People tell me my blue eyes, and don't tell me of my lack of tallness:-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm a real geek when it comes to pop music (mostly 80's & 90's)...My all-time favorites include:
- Smiths/Morrissey - Beatles - Radiohead - Talking Heads
- Beastie Boys - New Order - Cypress Hill - Radiohead
- Belle & Sebastian - Weezer....and my more recent fav's include: Camera Obscura, The Courteeners, Daft Punk.

Favorite movies:
- Office Space - Borat, Bruno - Anchorman, Old School
- Best in Show, A Mighty Wind - Jackie Brown, Swingers
- Old Woody Allen... get the picture.

As for the boob tube: I'm a huge Seineld fan/geek and I could watch Jon Stewart all day if he had one of those Ozzie Osbourne reality shows in his home. My favorite TV show of all time is the original BBC "The Office"....and at the intersection of my love of music and comedy are the those 2 wonderful fools from New Zealand, Flight of The Conchords.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Being in Love - with my son and with a good woman
My own sense of entitlement - I mean gratitude :-)
Enough money to not have to worry about money
A good cup of coffee in the morning
Gettin' busy :-)
An iPod full of great music (see above)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I'm parenting my son and how I can be the best parent to him that I can be. If I've learned one thing in my life it is how crucial the role of parents are to their kids development and their kids prospects for happiness throughout their life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Alternates between having a blast playing ping pong with my son and wallowing in self-doubt/plotting revenge against enemies real and/or imagined.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Where do I begin? Let's start with the perverse thrill of answering some of these very personal questions and the underlying notion that because you're sharing this stuff with EVERYBODY that you're really sharing it with NOBODY and thus keeping it private...hmmm.....
You should message me if
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I'm not much for extended writing - from my experience, whether or not you'll like someone is not a logical, intellectual or verbal pursuit, rather it's highly illogical, irrational and emotional, therefore can only be felt from meeting and being in someone's presence...