How to tell my "story" in this small white box? Do I give you the
facts and figures? Do I describe the inside or the outside?
There are some unique elements to my "story" that might not be for
many...but that is part of the adventure in getting to know me. I
will say here that I am poly and a have long term primary partner
but I'm in search of others to spend time with.
Professionally I'm successful and I love my job. But I'm more
focused these days on life outside the office. While you can put me
in the box of a computer and technology geek I've also stepped
outside where you'll find me exploring meditation, breath work,
bodywork, Reiki, shamanism and BDSM.
What I’m doing with my life
When it comes to my career things are pretty stable and good. I'm
lucky and I don't take it for granted.
As a result though it means I have time and resources to explore
the things I am passionate about outside the office. My passions
are many and diverse which in of itself keeps me going, learning
and seeking. Whether it is a quiet afternoon trading Reiki and
massage with a partner or hours spent piecing together a new
multi-media video production.
I’m really good at
Most who know me would say I am really good at helping others...at
times neglecting myself. I take great joy in helping those in my
life find their passions and achieve the things they desire
personally or professionally.
As for the less lofty skills I'm good with most any technology,
give an amazing massage (cliche I know but I do!), can handle most
any firearm pretty damn well and make a great grilled cheese
sandwich. Wow does that sound typical guy or what!
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes, my presence and attention on them, fully present, in the
moment. But yes I'm also a bigger guy, about 6' and more a teddy
bear. Seeking to change this a bit but will always be known for
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Hyperion, Ravenor, Game of Thrones, Kushiel's Dart, Gatherer
of Clouds, Eisenhorn, Opening Up, Radical Ecstasy, Man's Search for
Movies: wow....all kinds! My music explorations are pretty diverse
as well though I am not too interested in country or opera.
Many kinds of food though I have a serious love of sushi.
The six things I could never do without
- A loving pet
- Passion (of all kinds)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Finishing what I'm doing now...deciding on what to do next. :)
On a typical Friday night I am
With friends, by myself, a quiet book, a loud movie, surrounded by
music, deep in contemplation. All over the place!
You should message me if
You see life as an adventure, you enjoy learning about new things
and exploring with a partner be it as friends, lovers or partners.