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38 M Washington, DC

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Nov 26, 2013
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Esperanto (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Is this another Grindr pissing contest?

I'm recently out of a 9 year relationship so I'm not looking to rush into any new relationship. I am interested in that, but just want to take things slow. I'm always looking for new friends, though.
I'm an acupuncturist. I work in a group practice in Georgetown. I'm doing well financially, though I don't make a six-figure salary..yet. I love what I do and my work is very important to me. But I also enjoy the finer things in life like theater, music concerts, museums, good food, good conversation, and travel. I'm a New York Times kind of a guy. I enjoy discussing politics, but I find that it can also be divisive and polarizing. I'm definitely a Democrat on the Kinsey Scale, but very open-minded. Republican/libertarian friendly.
I really love musicals and like traveling to NYC (my hometown) to see plays and such. I also love the great outdoors and would love to find some biking/hiking partners.
I'm well traveled and prefer those who place travel as a priority.
I'm Jewish, but not really that observant.
Anyway, enough about me..tell me about yourself!
What I’m doing with my life
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Just got back from an Atlantis cruise in the Caribbean. Trying to detox and settle back into my DC life (March 27, 2012)
My New Years resolution is to work out more. I'm slim, but I can't expect that this will last forever, particularly with my foodie tendencies. It would be great to find someone who enjoys athletics and going to the gym to help motivate me in that direction :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Humor. I really enjoy sarcasm (it's the New Yorker in me) However, sarcasm can be off-putting to some so I try to rein it in with strangers..but it will come out at some point!
The first things people usually notice about me
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Well I am handsome and funny. I do have a strong personality, which some perceive as intense. Some people like that though.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: A Home At The End of the World, Becoming A Man: Half A Life Story, This Boy's Life, Harry Potter series.
Movies: The Hours, The Ice Storm, West Side Story, Funny Girl, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Everything is Illuminated.
Music: Varied from Sarah Vaughan to Barbra Streisand to Puccini to Nirvana to Indigo Girls to Morrissey. Of course Broadway musicals!
Food: Everything. I'm surprised that I'm not 450 pounds, just 150.
TV: Standard gay fare: pretty much everything on Bravo, Downton Abbey, I used to love Brothers & Sisters, Six Feet Under (OMG that last episode!)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sex, iPhone, good food, travel, good friends, culture. In no particular order. (of course water, oxygen, etc..)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Depends on the day. Usually some variation of the six things listed above.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually going out with my friends, though I do work on Saturdays. Sometimes it's just a bottle of wine and Fashion Police.
You should message me if
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you like what you see!